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Change Aint Easy

Change Aint Easy We thought it was so simple back then Things didn't need to have to make sense different words were okay, yep green on both sides of the fence We just played I was a boy you were a girl My hair straight yours had a bit of curl Jumping on pogo sticks feeling dizzy when we'd twirl Boy things, girl things? Forget it, let's follow that squirrel Today kids gotta be gender neutral free No labels, no siree He's not a him and she aint a she No one knows for sure who they might be maybe somewhere in the middle or all three I remember boys and girls climbing trees hopscotch, jump rope and skinned knees We'd pretend to sail the seven seas Little kids didn't know about birds and the bees We didn't have the politically correct disease Yep, we were more interested in running with the breeze Playing outside in sunshine or even when it would freeze Just kids building forts Playing cowboys and Indians in our shorts Using pieces of wood as racquets on the tennis court playing with snakes and toads unconcerned with warts Our biggest worry was bringing home our school reports Yes, I understand the world is changing It's time to point fingers and start blaming The past generation needs shaming We're toothless fierce But somehow we still need taming trying our best but lacking training No need to worry the old ways are fading Now it's okay if it's us you're hating In time you'll be old and with the new young you'll be debating. I'll be long gone Hopefully you won’t be complaining Yep, change can be awfully frustrating... Note: I put myself in an older person’s shoes and tried to imagine how things have changed since the 40s and 50s. The landscape has changed quite a bit since then. Each subsequent generation will look back and think their time was the good old days and the next generation will need to put their stamp on the world. Then their time will end, and the following generation will think they had it all wrong. As long as we keep trying hopefully we'll get more right than wrong.

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Date: 11/5/2018 10:33:00 AM
Hi Richard, this is an excellent write that encompasses your subject. The changes are just coming too quickly for me. All this political correctness, it's a wonder kids know what or who they are. In my day things were so much simpler as your poem does say. I love the content Richard, right on the money. Well, life is changing, but is it changing for the better. Have a wonderful Monday. Your friend always....Mike.
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Date: 8/18/2018 2:57:00 AM
This is all blue flame! And it's everywhere; this confusion. It's a sin for a killer to kill; because of free will. So, it applies to those who choose indulge in free will with this also. In a few years we'll be weird for being straight!!!
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Richard Lamoureux
Date: 8/18/2018 7:57:00 AM
It’s interesting, before we would have to accomplish something before we would take pride in it.
Date: 12/25/2017 3:25:00 PM
5hanks for reminding me I'm old lol. The new generation always sucks compared to the last
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Date: 12/14/2017 10:57:00 AM
It really does seem that kids are no longer able to just be kids. And change can be very hard depending on the person and circumstance. I also appreciated your end note.
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Date: 12/7/2017 8:34:00 AM
I hate change! I constantly miss my childhood. Loved this poem <3
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Richard Lamoureux
Date: 12/7/2017 8:38:00 AM
Thanks Laurice.
Date: 12/3/2017 6:45:00 AM
Excellent truth brought about in this poem, Richard, I like your simplistic style of writing with rhyme thrown in :) but I do think that those days with not much technology was really better :)
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Richard Lamoureux
Date: 12/3/2017 11:26:00 AM
Thanks Jo.
Date: 12/2/2017 7:36:00 PM
This is excellent! I grew up in the 70"s and 80's and also had a "dysfunctional" family situation. And even I think things are weird now... although us teenagers seemed "totally" weird to our parents "for sure"! haha :) Love the author's note too.
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Date: 12/2/2017 7:59:00 AM
so true and so good!!!! I truly do wish with time things didn't change but sadly they do change to not so much the best... those days you speak of are happy days were kids today and tomorrow will never get to feel or know
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Richard Lamoureux
Date: 12/2/2017 8:20:00 AM
Growing up with an abusive father I never experienced the good old days. I think for people of colour, or gay people and for many women they also were not the good old days, in reality many people will idealize the past. The longer the period of time the better it was.
Date: 12/2/2017 4:27:00 AM
Amen! Very well-said, Richard. Such a socially relevant inked statement of truth and faith for the future gen. As long as God-fearing parents do their part in raising them to be tolerant of the diversity of humankind. Wonderful thought-provoking poetry. Shooting star bright write. Love and more love always.
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Date: 12/2/2017 8:15:00 AM
Thanks Freddie, once again you make my day with your eloquent comment.
Date: 11/30/2017 3:15:00 PM
You did this very well Richard... Excelelnt.
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Date: 12/1/2017 1:22:00 AM
Thanks Silent.
Date: 11/30/2017 1:56:00 PM
- A wonderful poem with meaning, Richard ... many different chapters in life ... looking back can give you a smile, how easy everything seems to be - But, we all change over the years ... I hope and believe we will become wiser ... and appreciate life more - The world today is more complicated ... everything is changing - hugs // Anne-Lise :)
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Richard Lamoureux
Date: 12/1/2017 1:37:00 AM
Thanks Anne-Lise. I don’t envy our young people, the world is moving faster than anyone young or old can keep up with.
Date: 11/29/2017 8:26:00 PM
Wonderful insight about generational change here in your creatively written poem, Richard. I’m tired of all the political correctness and long for the past times of innocence...!
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Date: 11/30/2017 8:28:00 AM
Thanks Laura, I don’t think things were ever as innocent as we idealize them. Racism was rampant, women’s rights were deplorable and those are but a few of our sins. Our world has been in need of forgiveness for a very long time.
Date: 11/29/2017 2:15:00 PM
I enjoyed this. The older I get, the more interested I become with time and change
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Richard Lamoureux
Date: 11/29/2017 4:23:00 PM
Thanks Anna.
Date: 11/29/2017 1:26:00 PM
What used to be common is now uncommon but I have found that grandchildren listen and are eager to hear about our youth. After they reach the teen years they know it all. Lol. The changes that are good are that kids don't ridicule their different classmates as much and are more accepting. Of course there are still the bullies. A great poem you have written and I enjoyed remembering!
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Richard Lamoureux
Date: 11/29/2017 4:24:00 PM
I’m pleased you enjoyed it Connie.
Date: 11/28/2017 10:25:00 PM
I thoroughly enjoyed reading this, Richard. Delightful imagery and so many good points brought up. Terrific overview. Thank you.
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Richard Lamoureux
Date: 11/30/2017 8:29:00 AM
Thanks Line.:0)
Date: 11/28/2017 6:51:00 PM
oh you are so right. Each generation remembers their youth as better. Profound and wonderful read.
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Richard Lamoureux
Date: 11/29/2017 4:30:00 PM
Thanks Andrea. We live in a hot spot in Canada, very little snow and very dry in the summer.
Date: 11/28/2017 6:49:00 PM
first replying to what you said. I'd come to Canada for the health care but I'm cold enough here. haha. Let me read your poem now.
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Date: 11/28/2017 3:54:00 PM
Whao! My eyes are fed with the beauty of each line. Change is constant. On occasions we wish we could turn back the hand of time. Well said, Richard
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Richard Lamoureux
Date: 11/30/2017 8:30:00 AM
Thanks Adeniji. For me I prefer that time keeps moving forward.
Date: 11/28/2017 3:38:00 PM
Great poem, Richard. Honestly, it was a much simpler time. It's easy to offend now. I know even with my own daughter some of my views seem outdated. I learn so much from her. This is a fantastic write. I really like it. I'm going away for a few days. You asked me to let you know when I blog. I have a blog up. Give it a read if you have a few minutes. Hugs
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Richard Lamoureux
Date: 11/30/2017 8:32:00 AM
Heading back again to check out the other two:0)
Date: 11/28/2017 10:44:00 AM
I like what you wrote born in the 50ths things were different change is hard.
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Richard Lamoureux
Date: 11/30/2017 8:32:00 AM
Thanks for the visit Eve.
Date: 11/28/2017 7:00:00 AM
You said it well--a thoughtful reflection on how generations think of each other--a unique theme--well done Richard!
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Richard Lamoureux
Date: 11/28/2017 7:28:00 AM
Thanks Vijay. This came to mind after listening to a radio show where people no longer want to be referred to by him or her. They want people to use a gender neutral pronoun. I found the whole concept to be quite interesting and tried viewing it from different perspectives.
Date: 11/28/2017 4:37:00 AM
There is so much truth here and I have so much to say on this topic that I'm sending a soup mail. Hope you don't mind. Great write, Richard. It sure gets the reader lost in thought.
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Richard Lamoureux
Date: 11/28/2017 7:24:00 AM
Hi Rhoda, I look forward to your soup mail and hearing your thoughts.
Date: 11/27/2017 8:21:00 PM
Richard, your theme was beautifully expressed on the simplicity of our youth compared to complexity of today's youth, and dealing with the resulting generation gap.. a very intriguing and compelling write. Enjoyed!
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Richard Lamoureux
Date: 11/28/2017 7:38:00 AM
Thanks Susan. I think one of the biggest advances and hinderence is the proliferation of cell phones and tablets. We are more connected and isolated then at any other time in history. We are exchanging the real thing for an illusionary intimacy. Depression and anxiety in young and older people is at record levels.
Date: 11/27/2017 7:52:00 PM
Honestly I wanted to stay in the first four stanzas :) well said my friend xomo
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Richard Lamoureux
Date: 11/28/2017 7:39:00 AM
Thanks Maureen.:0)
Date: 11/27/2017 6:32:00 PM
Such an insightful poem, you are such a wise man Richard! No wonder the young people today are confused especially regarding their gender and a couple of years ago we had 2 transgender students at our school - how times have changed and we have to move with the times (even if we disagree with it) hugs jan xx
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Richard Lamoureux
Date: 11/27/2017 6:38:00 PM
In the end people will be who they choose. I for one will take people as they are and feel entirely unqualified to judge their choices. Thanks for the visit and hug Jan. Hugs Rick.
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