Bonding With a Stranger

I bonded with a stranger today.
It was at the airport in Honolulu.
I was waiting for my flight to be
called. I thought, I better take
advantage of these spare minutes and
visit the ladies room one last time.
When I entered through the restroom
doorway I heard someone sobbing.
There sitting at one end of an orange
covered couch was a slender Japanese
young lady. I felt an immediate need
to comfort her. I said in my kindest
voice "can I help you? What is wrong"?

She said in her broken English that her
mother had just died and she was
going to her funeral. She cupped her
face in both her hands, rocking herself:
her tears dropping onto her lap. I felt
compelled to sit down beside her
and I began to offer words I hoped
would comfort her. I put my arm around
her shoulders and lightly rubbed
her back. I said, your mother is not
dead. Her spirit is still alive. It is only
her body that is no longer here. You
can still talk to her and she will hear you.

She loves you and she is watching over you.
I related how I had recently lost my
mother and how I still talk to her, and
that I feel she hears me. I heard my
flight number being called over the
speakers in the restroom. I said a silent
prayer to help her cope with the pain of
her loss. I gave this dear stranger a hug
and asked her if she would be alright
because I had to leave. She shook her
head yes and I rose to leave with tears
in my eyes. Yes, I feel I really bonded
with a stranger today, and she with me.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2010

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Dietrich Avatar
June 27, 2014 at 10:09 PM
coming back here to talk a bit. I was the last person commenting on this old poem too. hahaah. I am sure I have been to every one of your poems. so to answer your question: yes, that was my first naanie (and probably my last.) you should do one. they are kind of neat. And I knew you would recognize Rare birds if you saw it!! I had to rename it for that contest I used it in. Finally, the quickie poem showed a picture of bubbles and we had to write it in five quick lines!! silly name for it though
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April 22, 2010 at 1:59 PM
Hmmm, is this the one I thought should have won that contest? I think SO!!! Just looking for a place to post you a note(I've seen all your poems here, dear lady). In case you are interested, I think one time you asked me where i got the images for some of my haiku. If you go to Raul's recent blog, you can see his completely gallery by clicking on photos! LUv, andrea
Dvorkis Avatar
April 12, 2010 at 6:22 AM
The bond of love and solace is always there. Strangers tend to think they're incapable of bonding because of all the barriers we interpose between ourselves. I know this was never true since spirit is everyone and everywhere. I'm sure your love helped her cope with her tragedy. Thanks for sharing.
Dietrich Avatar
April 10, 2010 at 11:07 PM
connie, had I seen this one before? If you have not done it, you HAVE to enter it into the Kindness contest. I just know it could do well. It is so sweet, connie. I can't stay here but I still have to type up my poem I was assigned by Constance. How will I ever finish my work tonight. Already it's midnight. GEEESH. thanks for commenting to me tonight. LUv, Andrea
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April 4, 2010 at 4:21 PM
enjoyed, hope you are well!
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