Being a Grandparent

Explaining grandkids to your friends
Who have none is, I find,
Like trying to describe chartreuse
To someone who is blind.

For your grandkids bring out feelings
That nobody else can match,
Laying bare an itch you never knew
You had, but now can scratch.

As a parent, you experience
The fiercest love and pride
Intertwined with the anxiety
That childhood does provide.

Though when one becomes a nana
(Or whatever term you pick),
All you’ve learned plus new beginnings
Come together with a click.

There’s a closeness through your child
But a paramount remove,
So you have a chance to bond and kvell*
With nothing left to prove.

Yet before I had my grandkids,
I would surely have dismissed
Ever needing them, but now I know
The joy I would have missed.

*to beam with pride and joy
Copyright © | Year Posted 2023

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Krutsinger Avatar
April 24, 2023 at 10:38 AM
This is marvelous! MARVELOUS!
Borke Avatar
April 8, 2023 at 6:23 PM
Grandkids is worth aging for.
Merryman Avatar
April 8, 2023 at 10:31 AM
Great write, Ilene! I can so relate to this. I never knew they could bring such joy! Blessings, Kim M
Volumes Avatar
April 8, 2023 at 2:09 AM
W"onderful Poem Ilene. I have always said that if I had have known Grandkids were so great, I would have had them first ! Best wishes for a happy Easter.
Wonderful poem Well penned.
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