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Written July 15 2026 for the Patterns Contest sponsor Sara Kendrick

Battered Butterfly Patterns

“Domestic violence often follows a cycle that includes tension building, an incident of abuse, reconciliation, and a calm phase before the cycle repeats. This pattern can escalate over time, with the frequency and severity of abuse increasing.”
 Mayo Clinic.                 Wikipedia

You are beautiful even when black and blue
You are the victims and survivors of violence 
You are men and women hiding a bruise
Pretending makeup or shades is just styling

You walk sandy soft for there’s a big stick
Or a belt or a fist or and words that hurt
You are afraid to leave maybe you have kids
Amethyst heart the pattern starts it’s absurd 

Patterns first you are being green gaslit
Always a scream blaming you for it all
Next is the scene you wish to skip
Throwing things or maybe you against the wall

You are not to blame for the pain
Carefully you must exit but it’s hard
Perhaps it’s the way he/she calls your name
You know that the apology is to start

Spread your wings battered butterfly
God created you to persevere in life
Make a plan to escape and fly high
Happiness will follow in due time
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Guptar Avatar
July 24, 2026 at 11:45 PM
C ongratulations Karen on your win in this contest with a lovely metaphorical poem on patterns in domestic violence. Yes there is pattern in domestic violece as there is pattern in madness. Wishing you a blessed day.
Jones Avatar
July 25, 2026 at 12:05 AM
Thanks for reading and blessings to you as well!
Gibson Avatar
July 24, 2026 at 8:07 AM
Congratulations on your placement in the contest with this thought provoking write.
Jones Avatar
July 24, 2026 at 9:04 AM
Thank you kindly Faye!
Andresen Avatar
July 23, 2026 at 10:49 AM
- Congratulations on your win in the contest "Pattern" sponsored by Sara K. ... many great suggestions :) - We find patterns everywhere, just like you write in your poem, Karen :) - Have a lovely day / evening :) - hugs
Jones Avatar
July 23, 2026 at 1:06 PM
Thanks Anne-Lise and blessings.
Kendrick Avatar
July 23, 2026 at 8:15 AM
I wanted to say thank you for participating in my contest. I enjoyed reading your winning work, way to go. I feel for any person being battered, abused or threatened in any way whatsoever. I tell all women it is fine to seek divorce if this is happening to you or your children. Sara K.
Jones Avatar
July 23, 2026 at 9:49 AM
Your prompt was creative and inspiring! I’m honored you enjoyed and thanks for my placement Sara! Blessings
Anaya Avatar
July 23, 2026 at 7:12 AM
A real to life categorization of what to expect in an abusive relationship. This is clearly a message all should know, in such a poetic way, KJ. l love the title too. Congratulations on your placement! Blessings
Jones Avatar
July 23, 2026 at 9:47 AM
Thanks Anaya!
George Avatar
July 23, 2026 at 4:59 AM
The battered butterfly image is haunting. Unfortunately the domestic violence is of a cyclic pattern with a remission and progression (aggression.)The last stanza is so inspiring. Congratulations dear Karen on your great win.
Jones Avatar
July 23, 2026 at 5:01 AM
Thank you Valsa!
Daniel Avatar
July 16, 2026 at 10:23 PM
Very powerful poem, Karen, abusive relationships are regrettable, it's so hard for the women to initiate action...
Jones Avatar
July 17, 2026 at 12:35 AM
Agreed. It’s hard to watch loved ones being abused. :0(
Goldsmith Avatar
July 16, 2026 at 1:04 PM
What a powerful write you have here. Thanks for the note on he top. Great last line. "Good Luck" I did, "Pattern Of One's Life." Have a lovely day writing away..........
Jones Avatar
July 16, 2026 at 1:30 PM
So glad you find this powerful Paula! Thanks for stopping by and leaving your kind comment. I think I read yours but I will check!
Smith nee Howarth Avatar
July 16, 2026 at 1:10 AM
Domestic violence is something hard to get away from. In some of the victims minds they are to blame for it all and thus remain in the horrible pattern again and again.
Jones Avatar
July 16, 2026 at 1:31 AM
True. Thanks for sharing Alison!
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