A Traditional Housewife


The  woman married at a young age
to the eldest son of a farmer-
my maternal uncle and neighbor.

Usually, she woke up early at the crow's caw
and swept the dirt floor of the house with a broom
often wiping it with water and a nura ( wet cloth )
After that she took a bath, changed her clothes
and wiped with water the surface before the holy Basil(Tulsi)
in the middle of the courtyard
as well as the surfaces at the portico and inside the house
where the family Deities traditionally reside.
After these tasks, she prayed the Deities and holy Basil
while burning mekruk(,an incense).
The prayer was once again repeated at dusk
lighting a lantern or candle.

As a routine she grinding,hand-pounding 
and flapping paddy,(sometimes cutting firewood)
alone or with a sister- in -law,
cooking food( burning firewood) and serving the family members,
cleaning the kitchen and utensils after the food served.
After these she washed clothes for the family members.
And in the afternoon she wove clothes
at the fly scuttle loom in the outhouse.
Besides, she helped the neighbours in times of need.

She treated her father-in-law and mother-in-law with devotion,
regarded her husband's younger siblings
as if they were her own children.

Many children were born to her
but, she died prematurely at the age of seventy.

After her death I sometimes remember her
as one of the symbols of traditional housewives
of the old past .
.

(Fourth in the Poetry Contest entitled " Mother's Day" sponsored by Benjamin Bartley )
Copyright © | Year Posted 2019

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Dietrich Avatar
February 28, 2026 at 1:33 PM
I am so thankful to have grown up in a different era. It is very commendable what these hard working people did to survive. Did they have things each day for a little fun,? Great descriptions. We can really get a sense of how the lives were in those days
Dietrich Avatar
February 28, 2026 at 1:28 PM
Aha I I finally found one I never commented to yet!
Woods Avatar
April 23, 2025 at 6:59 AM
Sounds like a very hard working and loving mother indeed! She saw to the need of her family without fail, cleaning, cooking, for physical wellness. Taking charge of the spiritual needs a well. Reminds me of the scripture verses in Proverbs 31... about the virtuous woman. Congratulations on your win! Xo
Singh Avatar
April 25, 2025 at 9:53 PM
Thank you
Bartley Avatar
April 22, 2025 at 4:53 PM
This poem was so honest and full of descriptive imagery of Motherhood I had to share it with the world with you. Congratulations on being in the winner's line up. Thanks for sharing!
Singh Avatar
April 22, 2025 at 9:21 PM
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Devi Avatar
October 15, 2024 at 7:20 PM
In our traditional agrarian society of the past women married at young age often at the age of 13.(having grand children at the age of 30).Women did many household chores as mentioned in the poem.The also took part in cultivation,vegetable gardening,rearing of domestic animals selling agricultural produces in the market.In fact major portion of the economy of the land was in women's hands.............,......
Singh Avatar
April 25, 2025 at 9:54 PM
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Fenn Avatar
February 26, 2021 at 4:59 PM
Wow! Your aunt was a hard worker! What a great tribute to her!
Singh Avatar
April 25, 2025 at 9:53 PM
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Walker Avatar
January 20, 2021 at 3:48 AM
I love the storytelling. This reminds me of how my father grew up so long ago. Your poem is a beautiful tribute to your Aunt's life.
Singh Avatar
April 25, 2025 at 9:54 PM
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Lamoureux Avatar
June 9, 2020 at 11:31 AM
Sorry for your loss. She was an extraordinary woman. Blessings Rick.
Singh Avatar
April 25, 2025 at 9:54 PM
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Romios Avatar
November 2, 2019 at 4:43 AM
What a lovely tribute to your aunt, How ell she served and loved so many? Panagiota
Singh Avatar
April 25, 2025 at 9:55 PM
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Canerdy Avatar
September 27, 2019 at 7:49 AM
You have used vivid details to describe the lot in life of your aunt. Janice
Singh Avatar
April 25, 2025 at 9:55 PM
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Mcintosh Avatar
September 21, 2019 at 6:01 AM
She sounds like the biblical woman - the Proverbs 31 woman, who works so skillfully to care for her family. This is a beautiful tribute. I'm sorry she died so young. God bless you
Singh Avatar
April 25, 2025 at 9:55 PM
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Callus Avatar
September 20, 2019 at 2:37 PM
What a lovely, and at the same time, informative tribute to your aunt, Akham. She and other women like her must be lauded for being so hard working and faithful to their families. Best regards // paul
Singh Avatar
April 25, 2025 at 10:57 PM
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April 25, 2025 at 9:56 PM
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Pandit Avatar
September 19, 2019 at 7:08 AM
A heartfelt tribute your wrote--you gave voice to many women who live life just like she did. So sad she died early.. you honor many, Akham.
Singh Avatar
April 25, 2025 at 9:56 PM
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