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It Was Easy

It was easy to know…
An ever ready hug
A sticky candied kiss
A sweet clinginess
Eyes full of admiration
Songs full of love
A call for help meant only for one
Arms outstretched always wanting
It was easy to know

It was easy to show…
A wake up call to a favorite breakfast
A new frilly dress
Special occasion celebration
Treat upon treats
A longed for whined for gift delivered
Story time snuggles
Game time giddiness
Attention undivided
Every little need provided
It was easy to show

Yes, it was easy to know she loved me
Yes, it was easy to show I loved her
My daughter, my life
It was easy to know....easy to show

Why is it so hard now?
Refocusing on present realities
New forms
New expressions
New words
I struggle to find new ways
The old ones are worn out
All that’s left now is doubt

It’s hard to show…
It’s hard to know…
Am I still valued in her eyes?
Why does the passage of time make it so hard?
Why?
Isn’t love timeless?

Eileen Manassian

mother daughterrelationshipfree verse

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Harry Horsman

Date: 7/25/2022 10:14:00 PM

Yes the changes do seem to be pulling the generation a part Eileen, but with the love you have shown in this poetry, a child could not turn away from those beautiful special words...I hope you are keeping well and safe.. i do try and come and read your poems periodical.

FJ Thomas

Date: 6/22/2022 10:01:00 AM

The older they get the more responsibilities that take their time. Hard isn't it? Hope you are well Eilee.

Bill Baker

Date: 4/4/2022 7:36:00 AM

It's painful when it seems the love has gone. Love is eternal, but people all have their faults. We all have our own lives and paths to walk. Sometimes it takes us far away from those we love. The memories and thoughts pop into the minds of those separated from time to time, and a spark of the love touches them. I'm experiencing a similar situation right now and it is very painful in my heart and soul. Love and prayer for you and those you love, Eileen. A poet friend in Texas, Bill

Richard Lamoureux

Date: 10/18/2021 6:34:00 AM

Thanks for your visit. Hugs Rick.

Poet Tacito

Date: 10/4/2021 3:30:00 PM

What a powerful reflection on this vital part of your life. I have to imagine you've done the best you can...and will continue to do so. Powerful writing...it's so nice to see something new from you, Eileen. I hope you've been doing ok. :)

Richard Lamoureux

Date: 10/4/2021 6:21:00 AM

Good morning. Hugs Rick.

Kim Rodrigues

Date: 9/7/2021 4:39:00 AM

Hope you found this love from daughter again. <3

Richard Lamoureux

Date: 8/9/2021 1:19:00 PM

I was hoping for a new poem. Hugs Rick. Thanks for dropping by. ;0)

Rob Carmack

Date: 8/7/2021 10:06:00 AM

Impactful poem, one of the reasons I used to want my kids to stay kids. I know growing up, I went through a stage similar to this. As I grew older though, I either started to feel the love for my parents more, or I actually starting to love them more. I think most of this phenomenon is due to various spiritual factors.

Nancy Kaufman

Date: 7/16/2021 10:47:00 AM

This is so beautiful Eileen. You brought a tear to my eyes. I'm sure the pic is you and beautiful daughter. I could feel your love in every word. Nancy

Nancy Kaufman

Date: 7/16/2021 10:47:00 AM

This is so beautiful Eileen. You brought a tear to my eyes. I'm sure the pic is you and beautiful daughter. I could feel your love in every word. Nancy

Richard Lamoureux

Date: 6/28/2021 1:22:00 PM

another hi and hug, I hope you are well.

Honestly J.T.

Date: 6/27/2021 3:42:00 PM

Awesome poem; I like how you've set it up; -JT

Richard Lamoureux

Date: 6/7/2021 7:25:00 AM

Dropping by with a hi and a hug.

Laura Leiser

Date: 6/5/2021 3:16:00 PM

Such a heartfelt write, Eileen, and I can truly relate to this regarding my grown children, too! Yes, the love is still there, but they have become more complicated and so we show our love differently..they still need it desperately (I believe!) Hugs from Laura :)

Richard Lamoureux

Date: 6/5/2021 7:34:00 AM

Yes it is timeless and still they need to separate. It’s an important part of maturing and growing. When she has children of her own, you will experience a resurgence within your relationship. You will also find those old things are not so worn out after all. Hugs Rick.