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Florin Lacatus
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I was born on April 7th, 1998, in the north of Romania, on the same day my country celebrated freedom.

 

I come from a modest family, but I was raised with love, faith, and strong values.

My mother has always been more than a mother: she has been my father, my friend, my courage, and my guiding light.

 

I began reading at the age of five, eager to learn about the world. I received a private education and was taught to help people without expecting anything in return.

 

I had the blessing to grow up in a cultural circle that encouraged my voice.

One of the people who believed in me was dr. Felician Pop, who opened the doors of literature and history for me.

At sixteen, I was already working with a local TV station and the County Museum of History. I also played a leading role in Alfazet, a beautiful cultural initiative that shaped my path.

 

At eighteen, I moved to England to continue my studies in healthcare, a road I chose because of my mother’s example. But life often changes direction, and I had to adapt.

Today I live in The Netherlands, where I work as an entrepreneur in professional hospitality services. No matter the job, I try to carry kindness with me.

If there is one regret I hold close to my heart, it is that I didn’t spend more time with my mother, who, at only 48, is now fighting her final battle with cancer.

When the Toolbox Becomes a Cage - A Public Reply to “About That Toolbox”

Blog Posted by Florin Lacatus: 8/6/2025 11:19:00 AM

There is a peculiar comfort in believing that poetry can be built like furniture. A hammer here, a metaphor there, tighten the imagery, polish the rhythm, and voilà: a masterpiece, factory-sealed and ready for applause.

 Madam Chetta’s essay About That Toolbox is the latest homage to this illusion. With admirable confidence, she rolls out her craftsman’s bench, assuring the poetic world that Shakespeare’s sunlit Juliet is not a miracle, but the result of properly applied tools. The tragedy is not that she believes this. The tragedy is that she attempts to extend this mechanical vision to my Impossible Manual, a text that, by its very breath, is a war cry against such reductionism.

She could not even spell my name correctly. And yet she feels entitled to interpret my work. Let me be blunt: if you cannot respect the letters that build a name, you are in no position to dissect the letters that build a poem.

I have read your essay, Miss Chetta, in which the toolbox is elevated, even sanctified, as the key to poetic excellence. You suggest that mastering the mechanical elements: the imagery, meter, device, metaphor, is what transforms a limp “Julie, I love you” into Shakespeare’s blazing sun.

I firmly reject that framing.

I write not as a craftsman assembling kits, but as someone who walks through the ruins of certainty, breathing in the debris of what language cannot hold. Your toolbox, dear Chetta, is real, and essential for those who wish to imitate poetry. But it is powerless in the face of what creates poetry.

The Impossible Manual is not a curriculum. It is a map of places where the toolbox shatters, where your chisel breaks, your ruler bends, and your sandpaper peels off in shame.

You speak of mediocrity and excellence as if they are destinations reached by following instructions. You see a path lined with manuals. I see a chasm. You point to the difference between a whisper and a blaze and believe it’s a matter of craftsmanship. I tell you: Shakespeare did not consult diagrams to make Juliet the sun. He watched the world burn until only that light remained, and language combusted on its own glow.

Your essay is not wrong in praising form, rhythm, and imagery. But it is disastrously blind to the fracture beneath: the skeleton of failure, the refusal of control, the moment when poetry begins precisely because the tools fail.

I did not write The Impossible Manual to teach devices. I wrote it to indict them. My chapters are not tutorials; they are elegies for tools that betrayed me when meaning trembled and collapsed. These tools are only loyal when poetry stays obedient. But real poetry... real poetry is a rebellion. It erupts.

You offer solace in structure. I offer defiance in silence.

You polish your lines until they gleam under workshop lamps. I write with the electricity of storms. Your toolbox can produce poems that are perfect corpses: beautiful, intact, untouchable. I am interested in poems that bleed. That shake. That disintegrate the reader’s comfort.

My Impossible Manual is for those who write knowing form cannot save them. For those who hold the pen, and realize the pen is trembling, inadequate, yet still they write. These are my readers, not the factory apprentices, but the grave-diggers of language.

So yes, Chetta, use your toolbox. Build your polished metaphors. But know this: my manual is not for assembly. It is for dismantling. Where your tools no longer reach, mine begins. Excellence is not born from technique; it is born from the courage to name the unnameable, to write when the very act is absurd, impossible, necessary.

And next time you wish to debate my ideas, spell my name correctly. If we cannot even agree on the letters, how can we dare to discuss the silences between them?

Florin Lacatus
(The One Who Knows That Hammers Are Useless Against Silence)



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Date: 8/6/2025 11:45:00 AM
Buwahahaha. Oh good gosh golly I got a belly laugh out of this one
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Tom Woody
Date: 8/6/2025 5:09:00 PM
Yes I see it was deleted. Still in my file
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Florin Lacatus
Date: 8/6/2025 4:47:00 PM
Someone cleaned up their nonsense. That jab was meant for Craig, Tom
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Tom Woody
Date: 8/6/2025 4:10:00 PM
Huh?
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Florin Lacatus
Date: 8/6/2025 4:02:00 PM
Before you diagnose seeds, learn to spell their names. My name, sir, carries more weight than all the scaffolding of your rubbish poems. Write it correctly. It’s the only poem of mine you’ll ever manage to hold.
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Tom Woody
Date: 8/6/2025 12:38:00 PM
Sigh
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Florin Lacatus
Date: 8/6/2025 12:25:00 PM
But let’s not twist the story: I didn’t walk onto anyone’s porch shouting metaphors. I wrote an article. She came with a toolbox and started correcting the architect while spelling his name wrong. And now, when I defend my work, I’m “putting down a fellow poet”? Not at all, Sir. I’m simply holding up a mirror. If that reflection stings, it’s not my fault the glass is clean. As for swimming in the wrong ocean: maybe. But I’d rather be the fool who swims where there are storms than a wise lady sitting on the shore, watching paper boats congratulate each other. (mic drop kind of statement)
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Tom Woody
Date: 8/6/2025 12:09:00 PM
This is an amateur poetry site Florin. You're wasting your breath. And putting down a fellow poet publicly is never a good idea. Maybe you're swimming in the wrong ocean mate
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Florin Lacatus
Date: 8/6/2025 12:01:00 PM
Buwahahaha indeed! I laughed too: imagine me, a solemn fool, trying to explain philosophy in poetry to someone who are busy tasting their crayons. That’s what The Impossible Manual is: a poet’s ridiculous attempt to teach the sea how to drown properly. But that’s what poets do: we bargain with the unsinkable and try to sell mirrors to shadows, don’t we? :)

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