Why Do You Love Me

For what I write- is that the reason why?
You visit me and spend with me some time
Perhaps it is for words that make you sigh
Or truth you find well hidden in my rhyme?

Is it, perchance, to see a coy sweet smile
The vision of a woman in your mind
Perhaps forgetting troubles for a while
Elusive peace in what I write you find

But if I leave and can no longer write
Will time erase my presence from your heart?
If brokenness and strife have dimmed my sight
In coming days, will I no more have part?

Sought after and adored if I’m to be
For naught else let it be than being me

Eileen Manassian Ghali

I’ve been thinking about this community a great deal lately. We claim that we love each other. We claim to be there through thick and thin. FEW…yes, FEW can stake a claim to that. I’ve been under the weather for the last couple of days. I’ve been ill….AND….I’ve been forgotten. I know, it is easy to point the finger. There have been poets here who have gone missing, and I do often wonder where they are…..if they are ill, disheartened or just disinterested. I wish I could say that I’ve always sent a little message saying that they are missed. I haven’t.  Yes, we are all in love with poetry, but I hope we can see beyond the poet’s words and into his/her heart…..There abides a person wanting to be loved for whom he/she IS…and NOT simply for what he/she can GIVE. I’d like to share this lovely poem that illustrates this so well…..HUGS

If thou must love me, let it be for nought
Except for love's sake only. Do not say
'I love her for her smile—her look—her way
Of speaking gently,—for a trick of thought
That falls in well with mine, and certes brought
A sense of pleasant ease on such a day'—
For these things in themselves, Beloved, may
Be changed, or change for thee,—and love, so wrought,
May be unwrought so. Neither love me for
Thine own dear pity's wiping my cheeks dry,—
A creature might forget to weep, who bore
Thy comfort long, and lose thy love thereby!
But love me for love's sake, that evermore
Thou mayst love on, through love's eternity.

Elizabeth Barrett Browning
Copyright © | Year Posted 2014


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Date: 9/16/2014 1:37:00 AM
I love you because you need to be loved. Love lives by loving and being loved. You may inquire with wounded heart, why do I need to be loved my Dear, the answer is clear, you need to be loved to love yourself, to appreciate the pains and pleasures that have gone into making you a beautiful woman and Poetess. Only authentic love will achieve this for us Eileen, love that can ravish our totality, not merely a segment. Your poem pudhes me good with it's philosophic beauty. J.A.B.
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Eileen Manassian
Date: 9/17/2014 4:51:00 AM
Justin.....you need to love because there is no other option for you. Love flows unchecked. It is not real if comes out of any other motive than admiration for beauty.... need for intimacy with what the heart delights. Love for the need of fulfilling another's needs only. ..... will not last. Thanks for you visit. I see you old avatar is back. Take care
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Date: 9/16/2014 1:39:00 AM
Pudhes is Martian for pushes :)
Date: 1/19/2014 10:41:00 AM
touching!
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Date: 1/19/2014 9:04:00 AM
I love your poem & Brownings poem. It has been a sickly winter for many of us do not be disheartened. [Eileen, write and live for your own sake and your own joy [I am talking to myself too!] This new 'addition' to Soup of the site sending emails is drastically reducing the amount of comments on verses [at least mine - in less everyone mad at me?] instead of reading verse they are commenting on comments BAH!] Light & Love always
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Eileen Manassian
Date: 1/19/2014 9:07:00 AM
Sweet Debbie....You are so kind and dear to visit my work. You know I hold your opinion in very high esteem...I hope you know that. :) I'm honored that you'd take the time to visit. Yes, I've been going through some....THINGS...but I'm trying to stay positive. It's hard....Visits like this sure help! :) Thanks, Debbie...for believing in me....Means the world...Yes....I'm not mad at you at all! ;)
Date: 1/18/2014 1:03:00 AM
An excellent write Eileen. It's true all that we want is to be loved and accepted for who and what we are as a person for what we have inside our heart not for any other reason. hope you are well. best wishes to you with love<3
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Eileen Manassian
Date: 1/19/2014 9:09:00 AM
Thanks for the visit, my dear. It sure is sweet of you to drop by. I was happy to read your work as well. You are talented!!!
Date: 1/10/2014 4:34:00 AM
Too many days after the holidays to get life back in order. But I'm back, and honestly do care. Sorry to hear you were under the winter weather but you've burrowed a nest in my heart. Your poems will stay with me always, ingrained like initials carved into wood. Your tiny quarter inch smile, and your spirit made an indelible impression never to part. Even if one day you don't hear from me ... There you'll forever be sweet Eileen. XOXOX
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Eileen Manassian
Date: 1/12/2014 9:33:00 PM
Yes, the holidays do have a way of getting us out of rhythm and sync...It's taken me forever to respond to this...I'm sorry, but I do want to thank you for this most lovely of posts.....What a beautiful gesture of friendship and love, Sarai. i treasure this. Thank you. All the best to you in this new year.
Date: 1/7/2014 6:37:00 PM
Hey sweetie....hope you are feeling much better and know even when I'm too busy to be online you are always on my mind and in my prayers...luv ya.MD
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Date: 1/12/2014 9:34:00 PM
HI MD....My sweet. I'm finally over my flu. Hubby got it though... :( That's what you get for getting too close! ;) After a trip of about a week, what do you expect. I know you are always there for me and that you love me, MD....No doubt there. Hugs and kisses to ya!!! XOXOXOXOX
Date: 1/7/2014 4:48:00 PM
Yes, this is precisely why I've written the past few things I have. The internet makes it very easy to say good/bad, without any remote, mature thought of consequences. It's an f-ing damn shame. But...we, the people, the poets, can cure this disease and be better people by what we DO rather than we we say, delete, then say again...then delete...Many cheers & respect to you for this. Huge friend hug!
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Eileen Manassian
Date: 1/12/2014 9:31:00 PM
Hi Drake....I'm so sorry I'm late with my response to this.....Yes, as usual....you hit the nail on the head with your comment. I hope we can find a cure....I hope we can be better people....I know I struggle. Hope all is well with you....hugs
Date: 1/7/2014 7:58:00 AM
I have not and will not forget you Eilleen. I am sad to hear you are under the weather, it is a not so unusual effect after the holidays. Thanks for visiting my mom's latest poem "Mama Bear" was very appreciative.
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Date: 1/7/2014 8:57:00 AM
Hi Richard....Yes, you have proven that to be true, and I'm EVER so grateful. I'm depressed....and a little sick...Not the best of combinations... ;) I was actually going to start deleting my poems last night......I guess my brain was too befuddled to think of how I could ensure that I kept the best versions of these poems...as I sometimes even make changes on them as I post....Too complicated. Put a poem up about leaving...deleted it. Yea, not a good night, but you are a very big part of what makes PS something that I can't work out of my system yet. Thanks for the support and care.
Date: 1/6/2014 12:42:00 PM
- A lot of truth in what you write, Eileen - Yes, I've noticed that you've gone for a few days ... but no one can know .... on vacation .... sick .... taking a break ... - I have several times posted S-mail to people here and asked .... but never got a response back. - (Maybe they are not my "friends"???? .... I do not know) - Thanks for the nice visit on my last poem, greatly appreciate your visit. - oxox // Anne-Lise :)
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Eileen Manassian
Date: 1/6/2014 12:45:00 PM
Oh Sweetie....you are always one to check on me. No worries there. :) Yes, it is disheartening to write to someone and not get a response. I at least TRY to keep updated on my posts, but I do also fall behind. Thank you for visiting and leaving this wonderful post for me. HUGS XOXOXOXOX
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