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What a Crying Shame

WHAT A CRYING SHAME My parents were married for 45 years, Looking forward to their 50th anniversary, But my Dad got cancer and died, And my Mom slowly developed Alzeimers! She lived with us, but often did FLOUNDER, And her mood was often DOLOROUS, She spoke incessantly on a make believe phone call, But to us this was BOMBAST and of little meaning! She had not one INHIBITION, and often acted LECHEROUS – used to take off her nightie, Whilst speaking to her imaginary, half her age lover, We felt sorry for her, for this was not my mother! One never knows how to handle any Loved one, who has Alzheimer’s and who do Not understand reason, nor did she, All of us a NEOPHYTE, new in this arena. But as PROVIDENCE would have it, God Must have felt so sorry for her, For 45 years was a devoted wife, Now a mistress to an imaginary young lover! She fell and broke her ankle and became Bed-ridden at the age of 86, but Her mind somehow came right, we Have asked doctors, no one knows why. Before she died, in a manner SMOLDER, asked to destroy “Ari’s” love letters! POETRY CONTEST - JOHN HAMILTON EIGHT WORD FREE VERSE CHALLENGE

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Date: 7/12/2019 8:26:00 AM
Hello Jenn. Have to FAV this, do you mind? It's sad but a beautiful poem at the same to me. So well written Panagiota
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Date: 6/21/2019 4:28:00 PM
A lovely, touching story of your mother, congratulations on your placement-
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Date: 6/22/2019 1:02:00 AM
Thank-you Michelle - It was a difficult time for us all, and my poor mother had lost herself! Thank-you for the congrats for my placing, Hugs and blessings Jennifer.
Date: 6/21/2019 2:54:00 PM
jen, a well deserved win; sweet congrats!..huggs
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Date: 6/22/2019 12:59:00 AM
Not quite a win but thank you for being so kind Nette, Have a wonderful weekend, Blessings and hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 6/21/2019 12:37:00 PM
Thanks Jennifer and congrats!
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Date: 6/22/2019 12:57:00 AM
Thank-you John, Hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 6/11/2019 3:57:00 PM
Dementia / Alzheimer's is what I dread most in life, Jenny! I am so sorry for both your parents; your mother's condition takes away so much from the person we are so used to! Your poem is sentimental and touches our heart. You have done really well in inserting all those prompts; I am sure it was not easy! ~ Warm regards & Hugs // paul
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Date: 6/12/2019 12:50:00 AM
Thank you for such a kind thoughtful comment Paul, my friend, I think everybody's fear is this horrible ailment that attacks randomly and fiercely. Our situation was terribly sad here with my mom, but she fell a month before she died and was bed-ridden, she passed on with the worst possible excruciating bed sores imaginable - i'm sure they could hear her screams a block away from our house, when they came to clean and tend to them daily and we had a 24/7 caregiver for her - BUT - she no longer had Alzheimer's - doctors have never understood this. Hugs and warm regards Paul, Jennifer.
Date: 6/11/2019 3:52:00 AM
- A poem that makes me sad, as a nurse I have heard and seen a lot ... which is not good enough ... it's a shame - An excellent writing, dear soul sister - Best wishes in the contest, a top winner poems in my eyes :) - hugs // Anne-Lise :)
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Date: 6/12/2019 12:22:00 AM
Gosh Anne Lise, you must have been the most compassionate nurse in the Hospital! Our business is all about placing and nurses, and Matrons country wide for the last 28 years - have a very soft spot for the angels of mercy who take nursing up as a career. We eventually had to have a 24/7 care giver for my mum - all very sad.Thank-you for a wonderful comment dear soul sister, I feel the bond that we have as soul sisters is truly special. Hugs, Jenny
Date: 6/10/2019 11:11:00 PM
Hello Jennifer … have witnessed this sad condition a number of times. To the untrained, the actions of a sufferer can appear quite humorous, but of course it's not. It saddened me to read your verse Jennifer knowing there is little that can be done - thank you Jennifer - Lindsay
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Date: 6/12/2019 12:31:00 AM
It is sadly humorous at times, especially when she was whispering on a make believe phone with the most erotic words one could ever imagine to a Greek lover have her age ! My father who was English and a perfect gentleman and who she was married to for 45 years didn't feature in the equation at all. Thanks Lindsay, Hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 6/10/2019 3:49:00 PM
Such a sad but powerful piece Jennifer, indeed age seems to have a law unto itself even if it's inconsistent on how some react compared to others. My dad had dementia in the last two years of his life, at times not knowing who he was speaking to. A might penning indeed!
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Date: 6/12/2019 12:41:00 AM
Hi Gordon, sorry your father also had the same - its terrible, almost like losing your parents whilst they are alive! Thanks for a wonderful comment my friend, Hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 6/10/2019 9:04:00 AM
Alzheimer's is a terrible illness. So sad it is. Great how you incorporated the given words so well. Best wishes for a win in the contest Jennifer. Hugs Charlie :)
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Date: 6/10/2019 12:58:00 PM
Thank you Charlie - Hope so too - Alzheimers resembles a cancer of the mind, a degeneration so severe that it is almost unimaginable! Thank-you for a great comment - hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 6/10/2019 8:29:00 AM
Amazing how you were able to use those rather uncooperative words from the contest seamlessly, to tell your very personal and touching story. Sad story but true to life. Well done, Jennifer--best for a win.
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Date: 6/10/2019 12:53:00 PM
Thank-you Vijay, always up for a challenge - a beautiful comment! Thank-you for your support and friendship. Hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 6/9/2019 9:53:00 PM
So sad when our loved ones become totally different due to Alzheimer's ..
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Date: 6/10/2019 12:51:00 PM
They almost become like strangers and do the strangest things! Thanks Jospeh, God Bless, Jennifer.
Date: 6/9/2019 4:22:00 PM
Wow, this is so powerful Jennifer, you tell it as it is,,and the sincerity oozes through your wonderful poetry..
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Date: 6/10/2019 12:47:00 PM
It was a heartbreaking time - tears by all, misunderstandings, deterioration with no reprieve - our family felt helpless! Thanks for a thoughtful, kind comment Harry, Hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 6/9/2019 11:12:00 AM
Sad a final departures they'd be, almost echoes my parents demise, and a married life, twice it visits that'll be, Jennifer comfort knowing the ills of the world is no more, and joy they'd be eternally, and Best Wishes indeed, Aloha William
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Date: 6/10/2019 2:04:00 PM
Heartfelt thanks indeed...
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Date: 6/10/2019 12:44:00 PM
Hi william, I'm sorry the same happened to your parents - it is a sad ending and a bewildering one for all concerned - eternal peace for them all we pray! Hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 6/9/2019 9:23:00 AM
We have to be grateful for good health while we have it. Sadly as parents etc, get older you see them deteriorate . Powerful verse Jennifer. Good luck. Tom
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Date: 6/10/2019 9:12:00 AM
Ii is sad Tom, hopefully we will leave behind o legacy - our poems - but mine will have to be to our children not grandchildren as there won't be any! Hugs, Jennifer.
Date: 6/9/2019 9:09:00 AM
Dear Jennifer: The Lord works in mysterious ways. Hopefully He gifted you with the patience and love to withstand all the tribulations.
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Date: 6/10/2019 12:59:00 AM
Ralph it was heartbreaking to watch - she was certain her lover was sending her presents and we were hiding or stealing them from us, so she got our domestic to phone the police who upon speaking to her realized her condition within the first five minutes, apologised and left! Thank-you for a kind comment. Hugs and best wishes, Jennifer.
Date: 6/9/2019 7:37:00 AM
So sad to have things like this in the end. The end is not pretty but oh how wonderful heaven’s beginnings must be.
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Date: 6/10/2019 12:53:00 AM
No, nothing pretty about this disease you ares so right, but i hope she found peace Kim! Hugs and Blessings, Jennifer.

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