Touching With Kindness
Some parents and cooperative school teachers
and classroom and bus aides and drivers
are discussing government regulations
restraining transportation providers
from providing therapeutic touch,
because of an over-compensation
for emotional dysfunction behaviors
leading to appallingly irreverent touch.
Toxic touch critical events
predict long-term non-lifegiving,
non-wellbeing consequences
in young
vulnerable,
transparently frustrated learners
Typically,
healthily born with WinWin internal/external co-relational cognitive assumptions,
confluent expectations,
positive neural receptivity is therapeutic
while negative interceptions are toxic,
pathological.
We discuss our unhappiness
about current administrative restraints
on giving healthy therapeutic touch,
but no such caring restrictions apply
to receiving healthy
appropriate
therapeutic touch
from our wounded,
Win/Lose fragile,
fragmented,
cognitive-affective dissonant disarranged
kids.
We seem to be heading in a direction
that would more positively hypothesize,
Despite past risks of exposure to toxic touch,
and apathetic untouch,
we do not want to restrain therapeutic touch
with our arms and hands,
our feet walking and dancing in cooperative solidarity,
stepping out rhythmically, together
with our voices of kindness,
mouths speaking and singing
with ringing patterns of healthy happiness,
Integrity becomes fully-embodied
to support resilient WinWin therapeutic touch relationships.
One of my daughter's school transportation providers
learned therapeutic massage from a yogi,
Who began their first hands-on learning class
by reassuring those about to receive a student's touch,
and those about to give their first massage,
that there is only one mistaken choice to avoid--
extremism.
Massage, like any form of verbal or non-verbal touch,
turns from therapeutic default
through toxic abandonment of communication, untouched apathetic restraint,
and also when too aggressive, much more so when actively violent,
Toxins,
nonverbally and/or verbally non-communicating counter-therapies
are Win/Lose neural neglect,
lack of therapeutic mindfulness
to not touch by untherapeutic mindlessness,
Healthy touch speaks compassion,
whether with our WinWin intending hands
or solidarity voices
or any other of Earth's neural receiving and giving
eco-therapeutic receptors.
So, I remind my daughter
of what the yogi massage therapist said,
We only want to touch with kindness,
With our massaging hands
and with our co-passioning voices,
with our preferably dancing bodies
and our more therapeutically singing mouths
and signing hands
and signaling feet.
Her transport team listens,
laughs,
maybe a touch more relaxed
about possibilities for therapeutic WinWin touching
wounded Win/Lose dis-encultured students
on their often too-neglected journeys
in well-being life-skills
for enhancing healthy wealth of resilience.
While care-giving and -receiving adults
continue to cooperatively talk without touching
among our comparatively privileged/unprivileged selves.
Copyright © Gerald Dillenbeck | Year Posted 2019
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