This Mom Needs a Hug

I hugged my sons today between the chaos and play. 
They normally rush through the everyday hugs 
(the quick pat, while they pull away, kind of hugs),  
but I cried today, heard about too many sons dying today.
An everyday hug is not what this mother’s heart needs on a day like today. 

I rarely think of my own needs in my day-to-day life, 
but in these hours, as my world orbits far away from other worlds,
I need to embrace my boys, fully and completely curl
them around me for all the moms that will never again 
hold their sons with an outpouring of maternal abandon.  
I need to take my boys in my arms, snuggle them close, 
feel their youthful glow within their wise, yet tender, souls.
I need to touch the rough-and-tumble scrapes and softness 
of their boyish skin nestled in my arms and smell the lingering 
sweet of shampoo as their hair brushes against my cheek.

I remember how I felt an indescribable, unconditional love 
when they were born, the bond of mother and child 
that even death cannot break.
I need to hold them again like they were babies wrapped in my arms, 
to reach that part of them that is a part of me. 
If I can, I will hold onto them a little longer for all the grieving mothers,  
before they slowly start to pull away, asking, “Mom, can I go play?” 
  

Written 6/6/20 for Craig Cornish's
Hug Contest
Copyright © | Year Posted 2020

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Mishra Avatar
June 17, 2020 at 1:39 AM
Oh Rhonda this is so heartfelt! I can imagine the soothing bliss when you receive that warm hug of innocence. It surely melts away fears. God bless you. Much love. Congratulations on your win :)
Johnson-Saunders Avatar
June 18, 2020 at 5:33 PM
Thank you, Aditi, so sweet of you! Blessings, Rhonda xx
Allison Avatar
June 15, 2020 at 10:45 AM
Dropping back with my congrats on your win:-) hugs Jan xx
Johnson-Saunders Avatar
June 18, 2020 at 5:32 PM
Thanks, Jan! :) Blessings, Rhonda xx
Chutani Avatar
June 14, 2020 at 10:05 AM
Lovely family hug time. Congrats Rhonda.
Johnson-Saunders Avatar
June 14, 2020 at 11:01 PM
Thank you, Mohan! Rhonda xx
Makama Avatar
June 8, 2020 at 8:09 PM
Most profound expressions of your deep thoughts. A great, great piece!
Johnson-Saunders Avatar
June 9, 2020 at 10:55 PM
Thank you, Funom, for your kind visit! xx Rhonda
Krutsinger Avatar
June 8, 2020 at 6:20 AM
Hug them as hard and as long as you can my friend; they will be driving off to college before you can shampoo your hair. Great entry for the contest.
Johnson-Saunders Avatar
June 9, 2020 at 10:55 PM
Thanks, Caren. My 7 year old is ready to get married and my 12 year old wants to live with me till I die. They are polar opposites!
Wolf Avatar
June 7, 2020 at 9:44 PM
Won't be long and they'll be pulling away to say, "Mom, can I have the keys to the car?" Blink your eyes twice, and --- on second thought, don't. Enjoyed your reflections, Rhonda. ~ A Plain Old Dad
Johnson-Saunders Avatar
June 9, 2020 at 10:53 PM
Thank you, Gershon! You're right...they grow up way too fast. xx Rhonda
Theraven Avatar
June 7, 2020 at 2:49 PM
Rhonda, You said it so well, and so it should be. Thoroughly convinced by this poem there is no greater show of endearment than that of a mother's hug. It pains me to think of any child that missed even one. You left so much for us to reflect upon today. So this hug's for you. -Richard
Johnson-Saunders Avatar
June 9, 2020 at 10:52 PM
Thanks for the virtual hug, Richard, and the kind visit! Hugs to you, Rhonda
Mcconnell Avatar
June 7, 2020 at 2:47 PM
Such a loving piece Rhonda full of emotions and lasting affection, trust you'll get plenty of real hugs from your sons today and every day. Thanks for soupmail will reply later in the week, Blessings and hugs!,Gordon
Johnson-Saunders Avatar
June 9, 2020 at 10:51 PM
I'm getting my hugs even if I have to steal them, Gordon! Thanks for all your visits. xx Rhonda
Leffanta Avatar
June 6, 2020 at 2:19 PM
Aye, no time like the present! Like every song, once around the wheel and then it is gone, so love like there is no tomorrow! Aloha! Rico
Johnson-Saunders Avatar
June 9, 2020 at 10:50 PM
Good advice, Rico! Thanks for the visit. :)
Lamoureux Avatar
June 6, 2020 at 11:23 AM
Hug them while you can, that time is so precious. This is beautifully expressed.
Johnson-Saunders Avatar
June 9, 2020 at 10:43 PM
Thanks for the visit, Rick. You're right, the time is precious. My boys are growing up so fast. xx Rhonda
Romios Avatar
June 6, 2020 at 10:49 AM
Rhonda~ I know the feeling. I, too, love hugging. It's painful when I hear of parents of any age losing their children. Don't take life for granted. As a believer, I know He calls any of us at any age, home for a reason. So beautiful a poem.! Panagiota xoxo
Johnson-Saunders Avatar
June 9, 2020 at 10:40 PM
Thank you for your kind visit, Panagiota! You are so right. We can't take a day for granted. I'm getting all the hugs I can even if I have to steal them! Love and Blessings sent to you, Rhonda
Allison Avatar
June 6, 2020 at 9:27 AM
such an emotional piece Rhonda - my son came home in march but as he was social distancing as much as possible i had to wait 2 weeks before I got my hug. Now we hug every day:-) love this poem into my faves:-) hugs jan xx
Johnson-Saunders Avatar
June 9, 2020 at 10:38 PM
Thanks, Jan! I'm glad you're able to get those hugs in now. :)
One Avatar
June 6, 2020 at 6:05 AM
I can feel the anst and emotions of a caring mother... A lot of people will relate with your poem..
Johnson-Saunders Avatar
June 9, 2020 at 10:36 PM
Thank you, Silent! You're right about people relating. Even the dads need a hug once in awhile :)
Sharp Avatar
June 6, 2020 at 2:02 AM
Wow ! So emotive,and delivered with such love and care. A great personal write.
Johnson-Saunders Avatar
June 9, 2020 at 10:35 PM
Thank you, Lawrence! This is definitely one from the heart. My boys are growing up too fast. :)
Watt Avatar
June 6, 2020 at 1:33 AM
We sons can be pretty squirmy when Mom needs a hug, can't we? This was so touching, Rhonda on many layers. So compassionate for the mothers who struggle with loss. So honest about your own needs in these trying times. Beautifully done. Virtual hugs (I know, it's not quite the same) ~ John
Johnson-Saunders Avatar
June 9, 2020 at 10:34 PM
Thanks for the virtual hug, John! My older son is more affectionate, but I have to steal hugs with my younger one.
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