Therapeutic Lying

If you’re older and somehow not dying,
Yet live with dementia or worse,
Prepare to be hit with some lying
Before your last ride in a hearse.

This strategy’s gaining approval
As nursing homes struggle to cope
With patients whose memory removal
Deprives them of reasons to hope.

So little white lies are suggested
Like, “Your husband will visit real soon”
Since the truth often can’t be digested
And no time will be quite opportune.

Or, “Let’s visit the nursery; maybe
You’ll help rock your child to sleep,”
Where a doll substitutes for the baby
Which remains where the memories keep.

If deception brings comfort, I wonder
Why, to me, it just doesn’t feel right
Reaching into one’s psyche to plunder
What the mind has kept tucked out of sight.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2025

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February 7, 2025 at 8:25 AM
Twist of thought half-thru Ilene, brought me along also! I'm a PCA in Minneapolis, have been for over 15 years, now with amazing freshman paraplegic traversing U of Minnesota tunnels 'cuz it's below 0 outside! Previous 2 clients had dementia, beautiful minds diminished....worked with them till repeated violent assaults towards me ended it, but my heart aches for families dealing with this, only fix so far is increasingly stronger meds, so sad!
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