The Kindness of Men

All of the wrongs we have done to each other,
We will overlook...
W's lawsuit against my church, because they will not permit him to smoke there,
My interminable and intolerable lateness,
J's calling me, 'pathetic',
MY frustration with W's 'INCORRECT' political opinions,
W's insults, via text message,
MY chauvinism about my religion...
J's unpleasant, unfriendly criticism...
ALL these, we will overlook...

And give each other a good ribbing!

It was my birthday 3 days ago, and W buys me breakfast,
And J gives me a birthday gift,
And we all decide to like each other again --
That is, as long as I am willing to take
A proper beating at chess... THREE TIMES!

And it's all good!

All of the wrongs, we don't mention them.

Except, I squeeze W's shoulder, when I come up, and gently remind him
That we agreed to meet on Saturday...
(They called me today, impatient -- it's Friday -- to say, they are WAITING for me)
And "...oh, did I say SATURDAY?" W asks, wryly, and we all laugh,
And it's all good!

We have forgotten the arguments.

I ask for the family news, and it's all good!

You see, each of us knows,
You cannot replace ONE Friendship, with BEING RIGHT.

So, each of us silently admits to himself
That he was wrong,

And we smile, and it's all good!

And THAT'S the Kindness of Men.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2018

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Awtry Avatar
November 19, 2018 at 8:52 PM
so true, you can not replace one friendship with being right... I so understand the frustrations with the "incorrect" :) This is a FAVE for me
Fairchild Avatar
November 20, 2018 at 1:26 AM
Thank you for your kind words! I've never had anybody "FAVE" my poetry before. Bless you!
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