Taking the Time To Read the Signs

How can we tell when our loved ones is in pain? What do we look for in times of their need?I ask my self time and time again and what could I have done different. I also ask my self why does someone end their life in such a short time. Was the pain so real that they went away. What was it that they were trying to gain or trying to say. Was I so blind to see for myself. Why do they leave us and not want to stay. Were they hurting so deep down inside .Or did they look up to God or felt to lonley to pray. When you lose a loved one in such a tragic way. Do you blame yourself and ask God to bring them back because you did not want them to leave and wished they could of stayed. Do you feel like you wish you could turn back the clock .And plead with God and say why is my loved one gone please bring them back today so you can spend a different moment with them and tell them you love them and not brush them off and not be in a hurry because you have too many things to do and why not treat that special time with pleasure letting them know With love, caring and concern, reach out your hand do not look at them with displeasure instead replace it with a smile on your face and a special glow. When they look in your eyes they will see pleasure and they will know when you say I love you and I want to enjoy the special moments you have with them for someday when it is our calling when we are all old and gray they would not take their own life they would die when God calls them in his time so when their life here on earth is ending it would end a more natural way. Please take this moment in time and when your loved one is hurting don't look the other way tell them that they are ok. Then love with all your heart spend more time to listen when they are hurting so deep down inside. Don't think the pain they are having will go away for they are trying to tell so something. Dont look the other way. Open up your heart and believe what I am saying for this is true. For I have lost a loved one and have not taking the time to read the signs.