People are different. You can't think that one person will act the same as his brother or sister. Some people are totally honest and will not spread gossip. They are willing to help any way they can. Others are out for number one and if they have to step over a few bodies in the process well that's just collateral damage. The bottom line here is be careful what you do or say to anyone. Because if they get the wrong impression from what they hear or see they will spread it far and wide.For example I used to work as the night desk clerk in our local hotel. I got off duty around 2am. I was walking home one early morning and happened to see my neighbor's husband coming out of the bar which was located at the rear of the hotel. He looked at me as I crossed the parking lot and said,"What are you doing in there? I didn't think you went to bars." I said,"I don't. I'm the evening desk clerk and just got off work. I'm going home." See be careful what you do and say because you can be totally innocent and it can be spread about that you are anything but.