Real World Relationships

It's true, that we all have expectations of others with whom we feel, we want to form a bond and it's unrealistic to think that every woman is going to be "Cinderella", and every man is going to be "Prince Charming". Should it also be unrealistic to find that a man or woman who appears caring sharing, loving and kind, just in terms of presenting a first impression, bursts our notion of "romantic love". Later to find, that they are total opposites, I believe in being "real" which has it's drawbacks, would you like a man to send you flowers just because, of course... but you would not want him to do so as an obligation. What man would not want a woman that takes care of his needs in every way, this is a real world relationship