On Being White

I didn’t see my privilege because I was
separate in many ways from those 
who did not have it

by fate not white-white
that honeyed light that people like
me enjoy, like caramel on vanilla
as brown-like as is allowed
to maybe someday be even beautiful

people liked my skin, they told me
my eyes
loved my outside. even as a child
I thought, but I had nothing to do with that
See, that’s the truth about skin
we don’t do that to ourselves instead
they make it that their likes are favored

I didn’t see my privilege because I was 
blinded to those without
it, I didn’t know
those who suffered from society’s gaze 
or remained unseen by the hierarchy
of which my unearned color provided membership

hatred, tribalism, shame, oppression also
unearned

I didn’t see my privilege until I did
some still don’t 

and then I tried to understand
when things did not make sense
when anger flared from people
not like me, who did not like me
and what I represent
and I tried to see from behind their gaze
I saw how angry I would be
without the privilège I didn’t see
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Wolf Avatar
November 2, 2025 at 9:51 AM
The fires of jealousy remove a person, any person, from this world.
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November 3, 2025 at 10:27 AM
Yes
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