I'm a step father and am furious how men can willingly, wantonly leave their children when they are born, and not even get in touch with them for 15 years, it becomes frustrating when the arguments start and the step dad cops the "you're not my real father, why are you even here" and all I try to be is a father figure for them. ouch!!!! If I ever meet this guy I swear I'll make him answer some real questions to his children, honest stuff.
The actual truth:
1. The real dad doesn't care about his children
2. The real mother loves her children.
3. The step dad cares about the children.