Lending Both Hands

Let me 
lend a hand
I can’t sit
when you 
have to stand
When you 
can’t do it all
together we can

It’s not 
a woman thing
It’s more than
just gender roles
boy girl lady or man
I can change diapers
and wash that pan
I’m a participant 
not a fan

Bit by bit
we can get to it
It will go faster
if I don’t sit
Put this here 
that there
when we work share
everything will easily fit
Finishing faster
we both benefit

In the end
on each other 
we can depend
Together lifting life’s burdens
our backs bend
There are dishes to do 
laundry and socks to mend
Then family functions to attend
Life to be lived
with you
my partner
lover and friend.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2018

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Chiri Avatar
November 27, 2019 at 5:24 AM
lol I had to go deep to find one I hadn't commented on yet but glad I did! Loved it!;)
Lamoureux Avatar
November 27, 2019 at 8:12 AM
Thanks Brenda. I appreciate you searching this one out.
Laurie Avatar
July 12, 2019 at 8:25 PM
Hello Richard … your verse certainly paints a nice picture on how life can be if all pull and put in together. Respect is what keeps us together - thank you Richard - Lindsay
Lamoureux Avatar
July 13, 2019 at 12:52 AM
Thanks Lindsay. ;0)
Papyrus Avatar
May 6, 2019 at 10:55 AM
Sharing the workload to take care of the family and keep everything running smooth. I know that she appreciates it. Now have dinner ready when she comes home and you may get lucky. Waddup R? Blessings...
Lamoureux Avatar
May 6, 2019 at 11:08 AM
Ha ha, you would get no arguments from me. If it worked every time I would soon be a gourmet chef.
Faulkner Avatar
April 12, 2019 at 6:38 PM
This is so generous and inspiring - the last stanza especially touching-
Lamoureux Avatar
April 12, 2019 at 7:14 PM
Thanks Michelle.
Proxenos Avatar
April 8, 2019 at 2:30 PM
This Richard is one of the most caring, loving poems I have ever read - your sharing is so beautiful - kudos my friend! I loved and faved this poem! Poetry hugs, Jennifer.
Lamoureux Avatar
April 8, 2019 at 2:35 PM
Much appreciated Jennifer. Hugs back.
Milgate Avatar
February 11, 2019 at 9:15 PM
such a lovely poem and nice to see so much warmth and caring in a family from the father and husband.
Wanter Avatar
January 20, 2019 at 10:00 AM
What a sweet man/writer you are!
Wolf Avatar
January 18, 2019 at 3:03 PM
Deceptively simple prescription for a loving partnership --- in all its profundity. Nicely done, Richard! Best wishes, Gershon
De Beaulieu Avatar
January 9, 2019 at 11:30 AM
Hello Richard, yes every word in this poem you have created is true. I do like this poem that you have created. That is the way it should be in a married life together. have a nice day my friend.
Lamoureux Avatar
January 16, 2019 at 8:04 PM
Thanks Darlene.
Ober Avatar
January 2, 2019 at 9:07 AM
This is beautiful. It captures the essence of partnership perfectly. Why sit while the other is standing if you can sit together sooner if you work together? Happy New Year.
Lamoureux Avatar
January 16, 2019 at 8:05 PM
Thanks Heather.
Fleming Avatar
January 1, 2019 at 11:52 PM
Your heart "worn on your sleeve" as always, Richard...may your God bless and keep you. Have a prosperous and wonderful New Year! :) john
Lamoureux Avatar
January 16, 2019 at 8:06 PM
Thanks John.
Messina Avatar
January 1, 2019 at 9:02 PM
The gentleman in you is glowing Richard. Awesome write! Happy New Year to you and yours...Charlie
Lamoureux Avatar
January 16, 2019 at 8:06 PM
Thanks Charlie.
Daniel Avatar
January 1, 2019 at 7:48 AM
Nice rhyme for your better half, Richard:)
Lamoureux Avatar
January 1, 2019 at 11:07 AM
Thanks Jo.
Manassian Avatar
January 1, 2019 at 12:49 AM
Lovely tribute to your life partner. If more couples understood this principle, there would be happier marriages. :)
Lamoureux Avatar
January 1, 2019 at 11:08 AM
There are many times I haven’t done my share. She however is amazing. Hugs Rick.
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December 31, 2018 at 9:17 PM
WoW! Richard, You have penned a realistic love story. And I enjoyed it from start to finish. Wishing on the best in 2019. Happy New Year's my friend:-) Alexis
Lamoureux Avatar
January 1, 2019 at 11:11 AM
Thanks Alexis for this thoughtful comment and Visit.
Lee Sr. Avatar
December 31, 2018 at 5:32 PM
Grand rhyme and right on time.... Great write thanks for all you do.. Peace, Love and blessings for you and yours Be blessed in 2019 James
Lamoureux Avatar
December 31, 2018 at 8:59 PM
Thanks James.
Raven Avatar
December 31, 2018 at 11:32 AM
Hi Richard, such wonderful sentiments are displayed in this write. I do love the content of this write. More men should be this way Richard. I live with my sister and we both share the chores. Your song sings and brings my heart joy. You and your lady are both blessed to have each other. Have a wonderful New Year my friend. Your friend always....Mike. A fave.
Lamoureux Avatar
December 31, 2018 at 9:00 PM
Thanks Mike!:0)
Dietrich Avatar
December 30, 2018 at 3:29 PM
I love this . Sure do wish my hubbie understood this one. (if I could even get him to read a poem). He DOES work out in the cold a lot, so he gets off the hook!!
Lamoureux Avatar
December 31, 2018 at 9:01 PM
Thanks Andrea. Here’s to lots of help in the New Year.
Andresen Avatar
December 30, 2018 at 2:50 PM
- Lovely written, Richard :) - Happy New Year :) - hugs // Anne-Lise :)
Gentry Avatar
December 28, 2018 at 12:18 AM
Enjoyed this poem, Richard. Can feel the offering in your words.
Lamoureux Avatar
December 30, 2018 at 1:51 AM
Thanks Susan.
Rose  Avatar
December 27, 2018 at 5:21 PM
Its nice when people pitch in regardless of gender roles. Nice poetry Richard, I hope your Christmas was good .
Lamoureux Avatar
December 30, 2018 at 1:51 AM
Thanks Pixie.
Onclaud Avatar
December 27, 2018 at 1:51 PM
what a lovin' connection, rich.. you are a role model for all couples... well done!..huggs
Lamoureux Avatar
December 30, 2018 at 1:56 AM
You are kind although I don’t think I would qualify as anyone’s role model.;0). Hugs Rick.
Pandit Avatar
December 27, 2018 at 11:54 AM
Such wonderful sentiments..you know how to keep peace and joy in the family.
Lamoureux Avatar
December 27, 2018 at 11:59 AM
Thanks Vijay.
Smith Avatar
December 27, 2018 at 11:45 AM
Lucky person, your partner. I think they must know that though. Well done my friend, Happy New Year...
Lamoureux Avatar
December 27, 2018 at 11:51 AM
I feel like I’m the lucky one. Thanks Charlie and Happy New Year to you too.
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