Fragile Differences

I feel an important emotive and cognitive difference between comparing differences anticipating celebration of complexity As favorably compared to contrasting differences anticipating degeneration into win/lose chaos. The first feels right brain confluent curious and confident about difference and change. The latter sounds left brain competitive angry and afraid about difference, climates and subclimates of changing fragility v interdependence. One speaks to me of gratitude while the other hears negative and elitist attitudes; deep and wide rooms for improvement.