Fashion In My Family

My grandparents lived on farms – both sides of my family.
My mother’s parents and my father’s parents.
Overalls and button down shirts with pockets
Work boots for grandpas

Except my single grandpa did get dressed up fancy
For Saturday night dancing with his girlfriend.
He smelled wonderful too, wore a lariat with a turquoise stone
Shined his shoes as if he was going to church

My maternal grandmother was the only one I knew.
She wore a navy dress with large white polka dots
When we had weddings or funerals, and low heel shoes
The rest of the time I remember her wearing aprons over dresses

My mother was the first woman I saw who wore pants.
She preferred them to dresses, and took to polyester in a big way.
Remember the pantsuits of the seventies? I swear she invented those.
Matching tunics with wide legged pants.

My father wore plaid shirts or camouflage jackets
Unless he was going to work; then he wore a dark suit.
He was a salesman with a skinny tie.
He always looked crisp and clean; mom used starch on his clothes.

My style was wide bell bottom blue jeans that we called hip huggers.
When I was younger, and tops that looked maternity in the seventies.
This was the real style which horrified me in 1974, as I had to wear these blousy tops two years in a row
because I had a baby at twenty and twenty-one.

My new style is comfort. I am sixty-eight. I wear tennis shoes.
Elastic waists, soft clothes that are not tight, I love feeling free.
My husband is the same way – comfort clothes, elastic waists.
We like eating tasty foods; no blue jeans for us now.

We have three children. They dress according to their lives.
One has six children, but she dresses fancy and so do they.
Another has no children, she’s a professional. She dresses in suits.
Third child alternates between casual and fancy; working mom of three.

Our grandchildren are eclectic fashion displayers also.
Super controlled grandchildren wear traditional clothing,
Approved by mom or they do not leave the house.
The ones who are wild like our middle daughter have pink and blue hair.

I see dresses that are too short - the same as I wore in middle school.
I see pants that are too tight on boys, like we saw in the eighties.
I see boots not as cute as Nancy Sinatras or or go-go-boots.
Masks are the new fashion statement for the younger generation sadly.

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Date: 4/27/2021 6:46:00 PM
I guess that the more things change, the more they stay the same. ~ Double-breasted Suit, skinny tie, italian shoes.
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Caren Krutsinger
Date: 4/27/2021 8:58:00 PM
Skinny ties are back in - you are in vogue!
Date: 4/27/2021 4:32:00 PM
i loved reading this, caren! your poems are so vividly written i could always picture everything perfectly. i was recently telling my 7 year old grandson how i could only wear skirts or dresses to school and had to carry my sneakers to change into on gym days. he was really surprised to hear it. i wasn't allowed to wear pants when i started teaching, either. then they finally allowed "pant suits!"
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Caren Krutsinger
Date: 4/27/2021 8:58:00 PM
We had to take our pants off on cold days - could only wear them to and from school under our dresses!
Date: 4/27/2021 8:47:00 AM
I related to this poem, Carin. Fashions change like weather. I've always enjoyed wearing formal clothes, like a suit, probably because shirt and tie and dark blue trousers were mandatory in grammar school. In HS I preferred slacks and stylish sweaters to jeans and t-shirts, and loafers to sneakers which in those early days were drab looking. Good writing. Maurice
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Caren Krutsinger
Date: 4/27/2021 8:59:00 PM
Thank you Maurice. This was a an answer to a writing prompt.
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