Do You Remember Me In Your Memories Alzheimer

My dad lay in bed, ready to go to sleep.
I asked him "Dad, do you remember me?"
 " I was your daughter. Your only child. 
Just take your time Dad, think for a 
while."
 " Look at these pictures of you and me,
do they spark your memory?"
 " These pictures that you see, is a
birthday party you threw for me."
 She held him close in disbelief and asked
over again. "Do you remember 
me?"
 " She said look closely, do you recall?" 
A puzzled look on Dad's face, said it all.
 He responded. " I'm, sorry honey, I wish I
could. His sad response she understood.
 His memories just disappeared. Leaving 
her with heartfelt tears.
 Alzheimer's disease has found it's way.
Much to a loving daughter's, great dismay.
 Her Dad doesn't know her anymore. Now 
she carries special memories of him and
her.

Alzheimer's Association is
a wonderful Charity to make
a donations to. Home office: 
225 North Michigan Ave FL.17, 
Chicago Illinois 60601
May God bless those who 
contribute to this great cause,
to find a cure. You never know
if it may affect someone in
your family or friends. Please
share your own personal stories
in the comments, if you have
any. Thank you...
Copyright © | Year Posted 2024

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Suri Avatar
March 30, 2025 at 9:27 PM
Wow, I don't know what to say.. how heartbreaking must it be for the person who made you memories to forget you entirely? I hope for a cure. I'm not religious, but God bless you and your family. A heartbreaking read.
Junaid Avatar
February 10, 2025 at 7:11 AM
This really brought me to tears. My heart goes out to the people who have suffered and are suffering this nightmare. To lose the memories of your loved ones must be painful, and to be that loved one is a different pain altogether. I hope these people find solace. May God Keep us all healthy.
Buehler Avatar
December 1, 2024 at 10:12 PM
So touching and sad that so many families (including mine) have been affected by this tragic disease. I pray there is a cure soon. A nicely written poem. Thank you for sharing.
Tor Avatar
December 1, 2024 at 11:21 PM
So sorry to hear Evelyn mine as well have suffered through this illness. A cure is what we need and I hope and pray it comes soon... Blessings to you and thank you for stopping by Dear Lady...
Dietrich Avatar
December 1, 2024 at 10:17 AM
This is so sad and now it is beginning with your beloved wife. That was wonderful of you to put info about a charity group at the bottom.
Tor Avatar
December 1, 2024 at 4:11 PM
Thank so much Andrea for your touching words. God bless you for them...
George Avatar
December 1, 2024 at 5:52 AM
It is such a heart wrenching situation. When a husband fails to identify his wife or a parent cannot identify his/her child, it is heart shattering. Their steady slipping into a world of darkness or falling into a void can't be prevented as no effective medicine has been discovered for memory loss and as the disease is progressive. More than any other ailment, it is dementia and schizophrenia that are more challenging and hurting not only for the victims, but for those who take care of them. Their helplessness will melt even the hardest of hearts. These people deserve our greatest sympathies. Michael, you always bring to fore the problems of the really afflicted. May God reward you.
Tor Avatar
December 1, 2024 at 4:10 PM
Valsa so tender and lovely is your comment. Thank you so much your words touched me. God bless you Dear Lady for your heart is also kindred in all you say and express...
Jones Avatar
November 29, 2024 at 8:23 PM
My grandmother had dementia and I recall her starting to forget she had the stove on etc before she went to a rest home. I volunteered at a store that benefits Alzheimer’s called Guardian Angel Thrift. All the donated items were sold to benefit the organization which in turn donated it to for Alzheimer’s research. This was a wonderful write. Thank you for sharing.
Tor Avatar
November 30, 2024 at 4:29 PM
Karen I applaud your service to helping less fortunate and devoting your time to a great cause. So sorry to hear of your Grandma. Wishing her the best. Thank you for sharing and such a good Samaritan you are. God bless you for it and your grandma...
Read Avatar
November 28, 2024 at 8:43 AM
It's such a cruel soul destroying illness, your poem says it all Michael.
Tor Avatar
November 28, 2024 at 7:58 PM
Thank you John for your comment. It is a horrible illness. Hoping for a cure someday... Enjoy this day my friend and thank you for taking the time on Thanksgiving to comment. A true friend you are...
Wolf Avatar
November 27, 2024 at 7:11 PM
Heart-wrenching, esp. this time of year. Let's hope for a cure soon. ~ Gershon
Tor Avatar
November 27, 2024 at 9:43 PM
It is Gershon that's all we can do is hope for a cure. Appreciate you stopping by, and I hope your comment comes true. Be blessed my friend...
Rodgers Avatar
November 27, 2024 at 4:28 PM
Dear Michael, ohhh the heart-wrenching experience of watching a loved one fade away due to Alzheimer's. The emotional depth in your words especially in the line: "His sad response she understood. His memories just disappeared." This verse encapsulates the sorrow and acceptance that accompany such a painful journey. Your ability to convey such deep emotions through your poetry is truly admirable. Autumn Blessings, My Dear Friend, Daniel
Tor Avatar
November 27, 2024 at 4:55 PM
Daniel it is a heart wrenching experience. The changes we go through in life are never ending, especially for those that have dealt with this disease. I really appreciate your input Daniel coming from someone in the Medical mental therapy field. Thank you for stopping by my friend...
Proxenos Avatar
November 27, 2024 at 11:06 AM
Dementia is a terrible disease, my mom had it, but she recognized her immediate family, it was another kind of sadness that gripped her. One day I will share her story on Poetry Soup. Blessings, Jennifer.
Tor Avatar
November 27, 2024 at 11:39 AM
Jennifer please share her story. Looking forward to reading. Sorry for her condition and the pain you went through. Stopping over to read your latest Poetry...
Buhagiar Avatar
November 27, 2024 at 2:22 AM
As bad as dementia. I shudder to think of it. Your description is so emotional.
Tor Avatar
November 27, 2024 at 11:11 AM
Thank you Victor for your comment my friend. Many have shared their personal experiences and it is a reality that is life changing to realize. I hope for better tomorrows for those that are dealing with disease affliction in their loved ones. I hope there is a cure someday. God help us all...
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November 27, 2024 at 12:40 AM
I know this pain well. My dad has alzhiemers. Two and a half years ago, I became his primary caregiver. He dips in and out of reality. Sometimes he'll introduce me as his wife then I correct him and he chuckles. It's excruciatingly painful. Dad was a scholar with doctorate in education. He was an ordained pastor. He's written poetry and published articles. When he's had enough sleep, he does well. I'm grateful for what he still remembers. Thank you for sharing this poem. May a cure be found.
Tor Avatar
November 27, 2024 at 9:54 AM
So sorry to hear of your dad Eileen. Yes I hope a cure is found. Thank you for sharing your story of your Dad. I am glad he is able to remember what he can, I am sure that brings joy to your heart when he can. Such a smart man to be afflicted by this horrible disease just breaks your heart. Thank you again for sharing. So many daughters and son's are going through this painful relationship. God bless you and your dad Eileen. Hang in there and I hope and pray there is a cure soon...
Rodrigues Avatar
November 26, 2024 at 5:29 PM
Heartbreaking…we have all sorts of those but to still have a parent around but they don’t remember. Heartfelt… Hugs ~ Kim
Tor Avatar
November 26, 2024 at 9:35 PM
Thanks Kim taking a break from the Soup Dear. Will return in a while. Thanks for stopping by...
Cunningham Avatar
November 26, 2024 at 2:17 PM
Heartbreaking Michael, we've all lost loved ones to that terrible disease. If every country spent money on research instead of spending billions on weapons of mass destruction I'm sure that they'd be nearer to finding a cure. Tom
Tor Avatar
November 26, 2024 at 9:37 PM
Tom taking time again off from the Soup have to do much remodeling to my home. I just don't have the time. I will see you when I get back. God bless you and keep writing my friend...
Tor Avatar
November 26, 2024 at 2:25 PM
Tom such a a great thought you have shared. You are so right my friend. We waste so much money when that money can be used in research to not only fund this disease but others like Dementia, Parkinson's, and so many others. This world would be so much better in solving these disease that affect so many lives, bringing pain and suffering to Loved one's. Like you said we have all lost loved one's to this terrible disease. So much appreciated your input Tom, it is always a beacon of light to read your comments my friend. God bless you...
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