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Do Men Cry

Do Men Cry?
(A Paul Callus & Eileen Manassian collaboration)
  

Are men supposed to show their strength
denying doubts and fears?
Should they pretend to play it cool
concealing all their tears?
 
When things build up would weakness urge
temptation to give in;
should one betray signs of defeat
because of hurt within?
 
There is a line where macho ends,
it’s there for all to see.
The mask is ripped and make-up melts;
emotions are set free.
 
For men are at their strongest point
when they are free to cry.
Why must a man lose confidence
when tears spill from the eye?
 
For men in touch with feelings are
a treasure trove to find.
Each woman’s dream and deep desire’s
to find one of the kind!
 
A man who’s strong enough to show
he has a caring side...
well, such a man is sure to be
a woman’s joy and pride.

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Darlene De Beaulieu December 5, 2016 at 3:36 PM I see nothing wrong when a man cries.It is letting out the hurt feelings that has grown within. Crying heals the pain. Yes it is good to cry.After you feel better woman or man. it is the same. So go ahead and have a good cry. Paul Callus December 6, 2016 at 1:41 PM You are right, Darlene; crying makes for good and effective therapy. Thank you for contributing to the 'discussion':) Regards // paul

Laura Hay November 21, 2016 at 10:44 AM I have only ever witness my husband cry on 2 occassions and yet been with him for 26 years. Its not a fear of crying for him, it just doesnt come to him naturally. Perhaps its a design flaw ;) but i agree many men feel a need to hide such emotion, thinking its a sign of weakness - I cry at almost anything yet i dont see myself as weak. Lovely write again Paul, well done. Warm regards, Laura. Paul Callus November 24, 2016 at 1:52 PM Men can get emotional and sentimental, but I think they manage to hide/control their feelings better than most women. Having a good cry is beneficial, eases tension and stress! I've always had a soft spot for a woman with teary eyes:) Warm regards ~ paul

Heidi Sands October 27, 2016 at 5:15 PM Paul, I came to look at this one and I must say, this is a winner. Very true. :) Paul Callus October 28, 2016 at 9:26 AM I am truly pleased with your comments, Heidi. I'm sure Eileen will like them, too. ~ Regards // paul

Sofia Ra October 21, 2016 at 2:34 PM So beautiful. Your poetry is executed to perfection. Many men fear crying is a sense of weakness, when in reality portrays how strong they are instead... Paul Callus October 21, 2016 at 5:36 PM You summed it up perfectly, Sofia. It appears that women can read us men pretty well:) Thank you for finding this poem beautiful. Warm regards // paul

Carolyn Devonshire October 21, 2016 at 3:12 AM Indeed, when a man feels free enough to share his pain with me, I feel drawn to him. I actually see a man's tears as a sign of strength and depth. I bet you are one such man, Paul. This is a poignant verse and very well composed! Please check out my new contest. Maybe you can win some jewelry for Valentina. Hugs, Carolyn Paul Callus October 21, 2016 at 4:12 PM It is a pleasure to have you visiting, Carolyn, and your comments are truly appreciated. I will go have a look at your contest in a moment. Have a lovely weekend. Hugs // paul

Robert Lindley October 20, 2016 at 8:06 PM If they have a heart they do. If honor rests within them they do. If something hits them that hard they do. Congrats to both fine poets for this deeper look into man's soul. Great message superb verses. Paul Callus October 21, 2016 at 3:59 PM Yours is indeed insightful feedback, Robert. Thank you for your contribution. Best regards // paul

Maurice Yvonne October 18, 2016 at 11:57 AM This is a great co-write congratulations to you both on penning this important piece. Paul Callus October 19, 2016 at 4:38 PM Thank you, Armand:) All the best!

Freddie Robinson Jr. October 17, 2016 at 8:17 PM Great truthful poem, Paul and Eileen. Deep truths revealed in this caring and honest write. Ty for helping a brother out. Like the Temps said I wish it would rain, cause ain't suppose to cry. Loved this first poem of yours I've read Paul. Will read more in due time Lord willing. Much love and peace from the RW (Romantic Warrior.) Paul Callus October 19, 2016 at 4:58 PM Thank you for stopping by with positive comments, Freddie. I have read a couple of your poem, and I like your style. Regards // paul

Andrea Dietrich October 17, 2016 at 5:53 PM So true, Paul. I don't want a blubbering baby, but shedding a few tears is just fine by me!! I see Eileen did this with you. She did a great job with you!! Paul Callus October 19, 2016 at 4:35 PM I see that you too agree with the mainstream, Andrea:) Thank you for enjoying...from us both.

Jack Horne October 17, 2016 at 6:10 AM yes, I can never understand the stiff upper lip attitude - great write, both of you Paul Callus October 19, 2016 at 4:34 PM "stiff upper lip attitude" is quite the appropriate English remark, Jack! Thank you for enjoying our collaboration. Regards // paul

Viv Wigley October 17, 2016 at 12:11 AM What a lovely collab, both. Bought a tear to my eye. Viv Paul Callus October 19, 2016 at 4:24 PM Ah! So you do cry, Viv:) Thank you for stopping by. Regards // paul

Anne-Lise Andresen October 16, 2016 at 3:11 PM - A man with heart and soul .... crying - A really wonderful poem from you Eileen & Paul :) - hugs // Anne-Lise :) Paul Callus October 19, 2016 at 1:41 PM Thank you from both of us, Anne-Lise; so pleased that you like it:) Hugs // paul

Daniel Turner October 16, 2016 at 2:23 PM Fabulous collaboration from two of my favorite poets. Double everything! It doesn't get any better. Great job Paul and Eileen. I once visited the same topic. Paul Callus October 19, 2016 at 12:25 PM Thank you, Daniel. I've heard men boasting that they don't cry, and that tears are for women!! I attended a funeral last week, and was amazed at how many men had tears in their eyes. Regards // paul

Paloma P October 16, 2016 at 2:02 PM Men are not much different when it comes to heartbreaking emotions. I wanted to say something flippant about crybabies but this was too poignant. :) Soothing collaboration. Paul Callus October 19, 2016 at 12:08 PM Crybabies are usually mummy's boys, Paloma, they hang on to her skirt even through adult age...and they cry for no reason at all:) Real men do cry, for good reasons, without going to extremes! Thank you for commenting with a smile:) Regards // paul

Charmaine Chircop October 16, 2016 at 12:31 PM I love a man who shows his caring side and human enough to cry...I do believe the emotions of mArs and Venus are quite alike.You write beautifully tog...my dear friends. A FAVE Paul Callus October 19, 2016 at 11:33 AM I can imagine you cradling a broken hearted man, Charm! A woman can be the strong one in some cases! Thank you for liking, and for the fave! Regards // paul

Alexis Y. October 16, 2016 at 12:26 PM Hi Paul, You and Eileen have written a good a collaboration. I think a man should be able to cry if he needs too. Bottled up emotions is torture to the soul. Sooner or later those emotions locked inside is going to come out one way or another. Crying can show a vulnerable side and it can be helpful in a relationship. Excellent job. A without a doubt seven:-)Alexis Paul Callus October 19, 2016 at 11:21 AM Thank you for the insightful feedback and high rating, Alexis. It is easy collaborating with Eileen...she lets me share her pen:) Best regards // paul

Jan Allison October 16, 2016 at 11:46 AM No one should be expected to bottle up their emotions Paul in the long run it can do more harm than good; Fabulous collaboration Paul and Eileen:-) hugs Jan xx Paul Callus October 19, 2016 at 10:41 AM ...and thanks a lot for the 'fabulous' comment:) Paul Callus October 19, 2016 at 10:39 AM You are right, Jan. To be honest it is hard for me to cry, but my eyes do get misted up from time to time...and I don't blame it on wind and flying dust:) Hugs // paul

Eileen Manassian October 16, 2016 at 11:41 AM May I be the first to respond? I'm so glad you invited me to collab on this piece, dear. You and I work well together. Is this our sixth or seventh collaboration. Imagine! Maybe one day we can publish a cute little book on poetry. Hugs! :) Paul Callus October 19, 2016 at 10:17 AM Hi Eileen. It's a pleasure having you comment first...same as it was a pleasure collaborating with you...for the 7th time!:) It would be great to co-write a book with you, although I know that there is another wish that you dream of! Excuse the late reply, but my cold took a turn to the worse, and the tablets have been making me dizzy; still feeling wobbly. Hugs // paul