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Accepting Life V

I turned,
towards my friend, who always was complaining
about the injustices and hardships of life and in 
a calm voice I asked him:
 
" Tell me, was there a moment in your life that you, 
smiled? 
Laughed?  
Jumped for joy? 
Celebrated a success?  
Kissed your sweetheart and told her how much you loved her? 
That you embraced your firstborn and exclaimed- 
how beautiful life is?"

My surprised friend looked at me, took a deep breath, and then, 
hesitantly, whispered:

" Yes, I have to admit that there were moments like that in my life." 
  
" If there were moments like that, as you have just admitted," I continued 
"You, certainly, justify, each and all of the things you so vehemently 
condemn all life long!"

My friend looked at me rather confused, saying nothing.

Realizing that there was not to be any reply, I went on:

" You see, my good friend, we humans understand something 
only if its opposite exists. 
For instance, we understand cold for there is warm, 
soft, because we have experienced hard, 
heavy, because there is light and so on.

In the same way, we feel pleasure because we have felt pain, 
Joy because we felt sadness,
Happiness because we felt unhappiness.

As you see,
the question is not, how just or unjust life is 
but how much we accept life or not accept it.

If we do accept it- we have a chance to be happy
If we do not, then happiness will elude us.
Therefore, 
all depends on the degree we accept life or not, 
and
To that degree, we can be either happy or unhappy,
which means, 
either we would be able to enjoy life 
or we would keep
lamenting and complaining about it! "  








 © Demetrios Trifiatis
    30 December 2019
 
* I would like to thank all my friends who visited and supported me throughout the years. I also thank the officials of PS for the honor of the POTD. I wish everyone a HAPPY NEW YEAR, and may all your dreams come true, but first and foremost, I wish you health! Love. Demetrios
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Thomas Avatar
January 1, 2020 at 1:35 PM
It can be hard to remember the good when the bad comes more often. So it is good to have a friend who helps us remember. Definitely one to ponder on Demetrios :)
Trifiatis Avatar
January 1, 2020 at 4:06 PM
Thank you for following my suggestion to read this! Yes, we humans have the tendency to remember more the few bad things one has done to us and forget the many good things he/she has done for us! Happy New year my dearest F.J. Thomas, my very good friend from the past! Hugs xxx
Callus Avatar
January 1, 2020 at 5:00 AM
You are a wise man, Demi, and listening to what you have to say makes one realize how often people concentrate on the negative without giving enough attention to the positive! ~ Congratulations on p.o.t.d. Regards // paul
Trifiatis Avatar
January 1, 2020 at 11:20 AM
You honor me with your comment dearest friend,Paul! Thank you so much! Happy New Year! May your dreams come true!
Marcum Wong Avatar
January 1, 2020 at 1:26 AM
Hau'oli Makahiki Hou my friend! Congratulations on your deserving POTD! A great way to ring in the New Year! Blessings, Connie xxoo
Trifiatis Avatar
January 1, 2020 at 4:11 AM
Thank you so very much dearest, Connie. Very pleased to see you. Happy New Year!
Ligon Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 10:45 PM
Nice poem. This is encouraging.
Trifiatis Avatar
January 1, 2020 at 4:09 AM
Merci mon amie! Happy New Year!
Gilmour Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 8:25 PM
Congratulations dear friend on your POTD, such a wonderful message. With kindest thoughts Ann xx
Trifiatis Avatar
January 1, 2020 at 3:50 AM
Ann, my dear. How beautiful to see you. Thank you so much. Happy New Year.
Nicole Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 6:39 PM
Your photo alone is poetry. A precious moment in "Life" Count your many blessings, name them one by one. There are too many. The Blessings truly out number the hardships. This is so beautifully written and presented. Filled with so much truth. Happy New Year, my dear friend. Congratulations Demetrios, on Poem of the Day. :) Brandy
Trifiatis Avatar
January 1, 2020 at 3:49 AM
Thank you for your precious comment dear, Brandy. Happy New Year.
Goldsmith Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 6:10 PM
Congratulations on your POTD. So true. It is all about how we look at things. Glass half full or glass half empty????? Happy New Year 2020.........
Trifiatis Avatar
January 1, 2020 at 3:46 AM
Thank you dear Paula. Correct you are. Happy New Year.
Shaw Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 5:29 PM
"Ello Demetrios" some grasshoppers are just busy hopping about to see the Yin & Yan of life, a lovely tale to see up for the New Year, wishing you and all your family the best for it. Indiana x
Trifiatis Avatar
January 1, 2020 at 3:45 AM
In Greek philosophy, Heraclitus (6th century BC) put forward his theory of opposites which is similar to Yin and Yan theory but goes further so as to implicate Logos-the eternal guiding force in the universe-divine reason. Thank you dear Indiana Shaw. Happy New Year.
Andresen Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 1:13 PM
- So glad to see this poem here, my friend :) - Congratulations! ... well deserved :) - hugs // Anne-Lise :)
Trifiatis Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 1:39 PM
So glad to see you here my dearest friend, Anne-Lise! Your friendship is very valuable to me, God bless you! Happy New Year! Blessings and Hugs xxx
Wanter Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 10:02 AM
You are a PS treasure! Congratulations!
Trifiatis Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 10:05 AM
Thank you! You too kind! My treasure is my friends like you! Happy New Year!
Messina Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 8:47 AM
Your pen has written great poetry, but your heart has sent us all a wonderful message. Very Nice, Dear Demetrios. Congratulations on POTD! Wishing you and yours a very Healthy and Happy New Year! -Charlie
Trifiatis Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 8:58 AM
Charles my good friend. Glad to see you here! I appreciate your precious visit and comment! Thank you! Happy New Year and first of all, a healthy one! Blessings!
Ifeanyichukwu Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 8:46 AM
Demetrios, you're a right viewer from the perspective of life and been thankful for what we have and for what we can have later on. You have placed your words gorgeously in the heart of time. Congratulations on your POTD. Poetry hugs.....
Trifiatis Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 9:01 AM
Thank you so much for taking the time to visit and comment in such a lovely way dear, Okonkwo! God bless you! Happy New Year!
Kinard Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 8:19 AM
Congrats on poem of the day. But I would like to know if your friend replied or just walked away.
Trifiatis Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 8:54 AM
He understood , my friend! He understood and we had a beer to discuss further. He is a new man now! Thank you!
Roper Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 8:13 AM
back with congratulations on POTD. Happy New Year my friend. Hugs Eve
Trifiatis Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 9:02 AM
Eve, my wonderful friend, thank you for your warm visit and comment! God be with you! Happy New Year!
Hawkens Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 7:41 AM
Congrats with POTD. I love the message in this wonderfully written Poem. You have the heart of a Poet and the wisdom of a Budda.
Trifiatis Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 9:10 AM
How gracious your words my friend, JC Hawkens ! Thank you so much. In the heart of any thinking man is a Buddha waiting to be awakened by the truth! I wish you a prosperous and healthy Happy New Year . Blessings!
Pandit Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 7:07 AM
Back with congrats my friend--on a well deserved poem of the day.
Trifiatis Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 9:14 AM
Delighted to see you back my friend, Vijay so I have the opportunity to thank you once more for your friendship. Happy New Year! God be with you!
Warrior Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 6:38 AM
You, my friend, make life a little better...and for that we are grateful...Congrats!! on POTD!! and may you have the happiest of New! Years!...^WW^ :o)
Trifiatis Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 7:03 AM
Well, thank you for thinking that my dear friend , WW. I wish all people were doing the same! Little good is a good thing , I think! God is great and helps us find our mission in life! Happy New Year!
Adams Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 6:29 AM
back to say congratulations on POTD with this marvelous poem.... Happy New Years... hugs :)
Trifiatis Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 6:59 AM
Thank you for a second time my dearest friend, Sandra! I appreciate your visits and gracious comments! Happy New Year! Hugs xxx
Kitchin Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 6:23 AM
Congratulations on POTD Demetrios, what a wonderful message in your poem!
Trifiatis Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 6:56 AM
Tania, what a lovely surprise to see you! Thank you for your lovely visit and comment! Happy New Year my dear!
Y. Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 3:25 AM
WoW! Demetrios, I totally agree. Acceptance is key. Things in life can be disappointing. There's good and bad, but it's up to us to find the "good" in the midst of the bad. I really enjoyed this wise write. Congratulations on getting the poem of the day. It was well deserved . Happy New year my friend:-) Alexis
Trifiatis Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 3:32 AM
Alexis my friend, so good to see you this last day of the year! Thank you for your congratulations and your kind words! May you have A HAPPY NEW YEAR and may all your dreams come true! Hugsxxx
Cunningham Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 1:26 AM
A stunning verse to end the year Demetrios. Congratulations on P. O. T. D. Happy New year. Tom.
Trifiatis Avatar
December 31, 2019 at 3:30 AM
THE BEARER OF GOOD NEWS: My friend, TOM!! Thank you once more for your appreciation and support! Happy New Year!
Lamoureux Avatar
December 30, 2019 at 1:41 PM
I enjoy your longer pieces very much. This is infused with wisdom and warmth. Blessings for 2020 my friend.
Trifiatis Avatar
December 30, 2019 at 2:02 PM
Richard my dear friend, I think you are an...old friend here. We have been through many beautiful and constructive debates from which our friendship emerged stronger! I wish you Happy New Year for you and yours. A new year full of happiness and health. God bless you! Thank you!
Andresen Avatar
December 30, 2019 at 1:23 PM
- Brilliant written, my friend ... something we should all think about - Most people strive to achieve happiness - but many believe that the road there goes through high demands on themselves - Luckily acceptance does not mean giving up ... :) - Many thanks for the many wise and beautiful words throughout the year 2019 ... and all the beautiful photos :) - hugs // Anne-Lise :)
Trifiatis Avatar
December 30, 2019 at 1:59 PM
From my part I would love to express my deepest appreciation for your support since 2012 dearest friend, Anne-Lise! We have been reading each others poems and learn from each other! It is a pleasure to share my photos with you. Now I would like to wish you HAPPY NEW YEAR full of health and happiness. May the Lord bless you and your family! Hugs xxx
Theraven Avatar
December 30, 2019 at 12:12 PM
Demetrios, Much wisdom in this poem's message of acceptance of life. I so much enjoy the write that leaves me with more than I started. -Richard
Trifiatis Avatar
December 30, 2019 at 12:17 PM
Thank you my friend, Richard for your gracious comment! Happy New Year for you and your family!
Roper Avatar
December 30, 2019 at 10:26 AM
so very true .. we all need to be grateful for the blessing we do receive.
Trifiatis Avatar
December 30, 2019 at 12:09 PM
Thank you dearest, Eve! Happy New Year to you and your family!
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