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A Stranger Came To Stay

A stranger came to stay today, it took me by surprise,
A stranger came to stay today, I could see it in her eyes,
Yes she looked like my Nan, the one I’d loved for years,
Yes, she was the same Nan who had wiped away my tears.
But I knew a stranger came stay today, & she had no plans to go away.

On a good day I’d feel elated that she had remembered my name
Then on the bad days, we’d have to play this important little game
Whereby she’d only talk to me if I pretended to be Scottish Maggie MacPherson
I wonder Grandad, if in her younger days, she’d actually known this person?

Although you’d gone to spirit long before Nan became so ill
She spoke to you every day, thinking you were in her life,    still
She got very angry when she thought you were late home from work
And demanded every day that my Mom was to wash & starch your shirts

Mom was at a loss to know how to cope with Nan’s constant mood swings
Your prim & proper sweetheart would swear like a trooper & throw things
Nan’s eyes would glaze over and Mom knew she’d be in for another episode
Whereby this stranger that came to stay, would just lash out & explode

Heart breaking to see the collapse my beautiful intelligent well-loved Nan
We knew this illness was not her fault & to hurt Mom was never her plan
Doing everything to make her comfortable and happy was all we could do
Until it was her time to make her journey home to spirit and to YOU

One day the stranger who came to stay, knew she was moving on to a better place
She was different & we could see a serenity & peacefulness envelope her face
Her death was very upsetting, but her release was a joyous occasion too
As it was the day her mind was set free & she could rest in the arms of you

Copyright © | Year Posted 2015




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Date: 7/25/2025 6:39:00 AM
Thanks for sharing this... exposing your thoughts through your unique poetic style. Meanwhile, I greet you with the love of the Lord, expressed by John 3:16 of the Bible, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." Be blessed.
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Date: 1/27/2016 4:10:00 PM
LINDA, A great pleasure for me to find and read your pen today. Love ** SKAT-
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Date: 2/6/2015 1:02:00 PM
This is a beautiful, insightful and well-written poem, Linda! It is so hard to see a loved one change in their personality due to dementia. It's hard on the family, too. A 7 from me.
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Date: 2/6/2015 3:56:00 AM
This is a poem to my Grandfather in spirit, discussing my Grandmothers decline due to Dementia. Thank You for taking the time to read it. Linda
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