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Hold on to your kids 
Hold on to the thread 
Hold on to their hands and stay with them when they fall asleep in bed 

Hold on to their joy 
Hold on to their spark 
hold on to their dance and don't ever break their hearts 

Hold on to their world 
Hold on to their rhyme 
Hold on to the moment and let go of  adult time 

Hold on to their purity 
Hold on to their honesty 
When they have nothing to fear they radiate spontaneity 

Don't point the finger and don't count down 
Don't raise your voice little spirits get crushed and frown

Don't raise your hand and don't hit the wall 
Stress is experienced by all of us even in little ones so small 

Don't leave them to cry alone in a room 
Follow your instincts as a parent in tune

Don't use bribery don't use coercion
Don't make them work for closeness it will breed aversion

Never lie to your children even in small ways 
You will be caught out on the bigger days

Use connection and not separation
They always want to be close even when you want to go in the opposite direction

I know it's not easy they can drive you up the wall 
I know it's not easy with the schedules of work, activities and School 

I know it's not easy but it's you who carry your own sack 
All that has happened to you in your life you carry on your back 

They are all born fresh and new so turn your eyes around 
and question your own conditioned attitude 

All that has happened to you, you don't have to pass on, be free from your conditioning and learn to sing your own song

Hold on to the attachment bond
Hold on to the relationship
Work on the environment
Work on your friendship

Make the relationship primary with unconditional love and acceptance
Stay connected to each other 
Dependence will invite independence

Attachment is the shield 
Attachment is the sword
When they are out in the world it will protect them while they explore

Communication is key, a primary attachment faculty
Learn to listen again without urgency

Their counter will grows as attachment wanes
Attachments that don't work cause frustration and emotional pain

Don't let anything separate your child from you psychologically
Parenting is a relationship, a bond, a journey, not just biologically

Collect your child after separation 
With smiles, hugs, and kiss
This is the attachment revelation

Play and have fun, let them be themselves in all colours
In a nonviolent environment
They will teach you about what really matters

As we know, life is not always yes, but they will listen 
If the attachment is strong, and your guidance is at its best

They will express futility, let the tears flow
They will accept that sometimes life is NO

Trust in the child's desire to be good
The relationship between parent and child is sacred
Let us not destroy it with fear parenting
And You must and you should

We need to hold onto to them until they can hold on to themselves
For emotional growth children need to feel secure and well

Don't be impatient for your children to grow up
One day you will wake up and they will be gone
To live their own life and drink from their own cup

So in summary, its all about attachment, collection and connection
When problems occur work in the relationship direction

You have my full support from one parent to another
Hold on to your kids like no other.
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