Sometimes stuff just happens and sometimes it can be pretty serious stuff. We have to learn to handle things and times like this without looking for someone to blame. People make mistakes, that doesn't mean they should be ostracized or "Made To Pay" because we all make mistakes. Sometimes those mistakes can't be helped and sometimes they can. What we need to learn to do is Handle the situation without getting so stressed we make things worse than they are. Where there is a will there is a way.