What Might Have Been

As we age we regret words of anger and spite
That were heard and remembered and can't be unsaid.
The remarks we thought clever or proved we were right
That resulted in losses of friendships instead.

All the heartbreaks that came from suspicion and doubt,
The betrayals and hurts we refuse to forgive,
The companions and love that our pride has cast out,
And the chances we missed that we'd like to relive.

All the pathways not taken and bridges uncrossed,
All the times had we acted, a difference made,
The potential delights that timidity lost,
And the kindness and debts that we never repaid.

All the secret dishonors we long to forget,
And the wrongs we inflicted in order to win.
For the strongest of sorrows are those of regret,
And the saddest remembrance is what might have been.

                              * * * * *

       Or as Whittier phrased it, far finer and first:
           "For of all sad words of tongue or pen,
       the saddest are these:  It might have been"

Copyright © | Year Posted 2018



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Date: 3/27/2023 8:31:00 AM
Warm greetings Richard~ I want you to know that I really appreciated your poem "What Might Have Been" very much! I found it so relatable and thoroughly well expressed! I think it's such an amazing gift when a Poet is able to evoke depth and insight, not only as an observer but usually on a deeper empathic level. You've certainly captured raw feelings with this express most definitely and indeed! -Renee "Joyous Blessings And Continued Escalations!"
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Date: 5/14/2018 3:27:00 PM
I feel the whirlwind of emotions, in your poem. Well written.
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Date: 3/2/2018 7:23:00 PM
Hello Richard, all these words in your poem are all so truly said. Yes what might have been. This is true as well. Have a nice evening my friend.
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