The Photo

You don’t know
what you cherish,

like kissing
grandpa, two girls

against his cheeks.
He appears younger

than you thought
at the time, and I’m

in the prime of my youth,
shirt and skirt so sprightly,

my sis not her shapely-self,
still finding her way. I

recently slimmed down;
not the first time. Back when

both grams were living,
one thought I was too little;

kin don’t mean to do that.
Even now, a couple of people

have said it’s good to have meat
on the bones; rolling eyes.

I never gave thought
to the features, the blessed face,

how we must have been good
for his soul. We visited once

a year. I was a teen, my sis
a pre. She’d not come

into her own yet. Didn’t matter;
it doesn’t, to most grandparents.

They just moisten their eyes
with all the grand-love they get.

It’s not until we are around the same
age, that we understand

how much it must have mattered -
a photo masterpiece!
Copyright © | Year Posted 2026

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Etgen-Baker Avatar
July 31, 2026 at 3:02 PM
when we get older, we see our grandparents and parents with new eyes. Nicely done, Kim. hugs, Sara
Rodrigues Avatar
July 31, 2026 at 4:11 PM
Yes, we do! Hugs
Buhagiar Avatar
July 27, 2026 at 12:27 PM
It is rare I look at photos. Too many sad memories.
Rodrigues Avatar
July 27, 2026 at 12:38 PM
I can understand that. Are the memories sad or just remembering them? (( hugs ))
George Avatar
July 27, 2026 at 9:09 AM
When we grow older, we start realising the value and depth of the love of our parents and grandparents. The thought of their love, as we look through old photographs makes or eyes misty. Well written.
Rodrigues Avatar
July 27, 2026 at 12:39 PM
When we get to live long enough to gain this wisdom. Thank you, Valsa!
Smith nee Howarth Avatar
July 27, 2026 at 12:20 AM
As we grow older and start to feel the lonliness that not seeing family very much brings that we look back on our elders and see life through their eyes.
Rodrigues Avatar
July 27, 2026 at 4:42 PM
Times change, as does perspective. Thank you, Alison!
Gibbons Avatar
July 26, 2026 at 10:14 PM
Beautiful write Kim I so treasure n cherish photographs. I love taking photos too. Yesterday was doing a walk down memory lane through my photos. Was looking at beautiful ones I taken of mum threw the years keeps her memory alive. Hugs <3
Rodrigues Avatar
July 27, 2026 at 4:43 PM
I couldn’t look at my Mom’s photos, for a good while after her death. Hurt too much. Surprised me…that I was that one. Love that YOU had a walk down memory lane. Hugs ~ Kim
Hind Avatar
July 26, 2026 at 4:58 PM
lovely recollections then the present lessons :) enjoying your experiences <3
Rodrigues Avatar
July 27, 2026 at 4:46 PM
Thank you, Paige! Hugs
Rolland Avatar
July 26, 2026 at 2:54 PM
so touching poetry, love this photo It’s not until we are around the same age, that we understand, so true, enjoyed
Rodrigues Avatar
July 27, 2026 at 4:47 PM
If we live long enough, we understand. Hugs
Alhemaidy Avatar
July 26, 2026 at 2:06 PM
So nice and very interesting write!
Rodrigues Avatar
July 27, 2026 at 12:48 PM
Thank you, Abdullah!
Cunningham Avatar
July 26, 2026 at 1:39 PM
It's not until we're older that we really appreciate them Kim and then they're gone. Only photos keep their memories alive. Tom
Rodrigues Avatar
July 27, 2026 at 12:48 PM
Thank you, Tom!
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