Notes About The Poem

Some things are hard to forget. Some memories are hard to let go of. Somtimes when something happens to remind us of something that happened years ago it can reopen a wound you thought was healed a long time ago. It just depends on how much it hurt when it happened. There are people who have hurt me when I was young that even though today those people have tried to make amends with me and they have even died and gone on to their final reward I have truly not forgiven the pain they caused me and even others. Maybe because they were still hurting me even though I was no longer in their lives with their gossip. Maybe because they still thought I was to blame. Doesn't matter because it is all done and over and whether or not they have forgotten and or sorry or not I have a commandment from my God TO GET OVER IT. He has said if we do not forgive we cannot be forgiven. So I try my best to forgive and move on. When those memories return to harrass me and make me feel angry I have to go to prayer and ask God to forgive them for me and help me to forgive. Hate can send you to Hell. Jesus forgave His tormentors while they were murdering Him. His life and His death was an example for us to follow. DON'T TAKE YOUR ANGER TO THE GRAVE WITH YOU. Let God handle your enemies. You don't have to hang around with those who use and abuse you. You don't have to paint a target on your back and let them take another shot.  Get away from them if you can but don't give them the satisfaction of watching you suffer for years after it's over. LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR THAT AND ETERNITY LASTS FOREVER.

THE PAST IS PASSED

There is so much you can let go of,
If you really want to try.
Stuff that only weighs you down,
That makes you want to cry.

Old regrets, self doubts and hurts,
That drag up pain and anger.
Toss them, ditch them, cast them away,
To self esteem they're danger.

Worries about what could have, should have,
What ifs and if onlys,
Leave you filled up with regrets,
And leave you sad and lonely.

These things are somewhere in the past.
These things are done and over.
It's time to leave the past alone,
And look to days of clover.

Today make that decision.
The past is over, done.
Today, right now is fresh and new.
Look up, embrace the sun.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2026

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De Beaulieu Avatar
August 17, 2026 at 2:32 PM
Hello Judy Ball, oh, well said!! i do agree The past Is Over. Embrace the sun. Hugs. /Darlene/
Maverick Avatar
July 18, 2026 at 2:11 PM
Its about the toughest thing ever Judy That you touch upon here.' Wow i have Lived this much I do try to do as we are taught it depends on how convoluted it is as well..Whats the saying the devil is in the detail.? Right Enough that homily.. Help us Lord in Our realitys..Yet we know not the depth of true reality..Only you Lord Only You know all thats True.'
Loving Iii Avatar
June 15, 2026 at 4:23 PM
This is one you'll be remembered for. Very well written.
Wolf Avatar
June 16, 2026 at 8:20 PM
I agree, 100%. Great penning, J.B. ~ gw
Mcconnell Avatar
June 8, 2026 at 1:37 PM
Great piece Judy, it really strikes a chord for we can't change the past, but we can influence the future. This has nice rhyme and flow, along with nice imagery and expression. Hope all is well with you, blessings, Gordon
Buhagiar Avatar
June 8, 2026 at 1:58 AM
Dear Judy, that's great advice. As the saying goes: the past is gone, the future is unknown, only today counts. Lovely poem.
De Beaulieu Avatar
June 5, 2026 at 4:26 PM
Hello Judy Ball, these words are so true. I am making this poem my fav. enjoy your evening. Hugs. Darlene/
De Beaulieu Avatar
June 8, 2026 at 8:08 AM
Hello Judy, I am making thjis poem my Fav. Your welcome. Hugs. /.Darlene/
Ball Avatar
June 7, 2026 at 4:26 PM
Thank you so much Darlene God Bless, JB
Andresen Avatar
June 5, 2026 at 1:07 AM
- Words of truth, sometimes difficult Judy - hugs
Ball Avatar
June 7, 2026 at 4:34 PM
Thank you so much Anne-Lise. God Bless, JB
Kendrick Avatar
June 4, 2026 at 4:22 PM
Sometimes it is hard to forgive and even if we forgive, we don't forget for it is in our memory banks, but we can try not to bring it up and not dwell on it. I enjoyed reading this one, Judy Ball. Thank you for sharing it with us. Way to go. Sara K.
Ball Avatar
June 7, 2026 at 4:41 PM
Thank you so much Sara. I agree. God Bless, JB
Cunningham Avatar
June 3, 2026 at 3:30 AM
Quite an emotional write Judy. It's so hard to forget those painful memories, but it makes it even harder if there was no apology from them. Following his path and teachings is often a challenge for us but we must not give up trying. Tom
Ball Avatar
June 3, 2026 at 7:01 PM
I do so agree Tom. Thank you so much. God Bless, JB
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