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The Final Solution

My son threw a tirade
          At the parade
He rolled on the floor
          In the grocery store
He made quite a loud fuss
          On the bus
I said I’ve had quite enough
          No more guff!

written January 17, 2022

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Maurice Rigoler Date: 1/18/2022 12:47:00 PM I never dared make a tantrum with my father / for fear what he'd do to me after! Maurice Login to Reply L Milton Hankins Date: 1/18/2022 4:27:00 PM I understand that perfectly. I wouldn't have dared with my father either!

Craig Bowden Date: 1/18/2022 3:12:00 AM I have the same problem with the wife. A great fun write. Login to Reply L Milton Hankins Date: 1/18/2022 8:05:00 AM Oh my, a wife that throws tantrums? I wouldn't know how to deal with that at all! I feel for you.

M. L. Kiser Date: 1/17/2022 5:14:00 PM It does happen, it's hard to prevent sometimes. Well done. Login to Reply L Milton Hankins Date: 1/17/2022 6:53:00 PM Well, I do think all youngsters go through phases, and one of them is seeing how much control they can generate for themselves in the family dynamic. It's important that they quickly learn how tantrums won't achieve any control on their part. Thanks, M.L.

Tom Cunningham Date: 1/17/2022 3:40:00 PM Oh they try it on, I've seen some parents give in so they can have a quiet life but they're only making a rod for their own backs. Tom Login to Reply L Milton Hankins Date: 1/17/2022 4:03:00 PM So true. Every parent has to make a concerted effort to find a way to "nip it in the bud" as quickly as possible. Ours was isolation. See comment below.

Connie Marcum Wong Date: 1/17/2022 1:38:00 PM My children tried doing this once. They knew it was not going to get them their desired result because I was consistent in never giving in and I never had a problem with them embarrassing me like some of my friends children embarrassed them. Seeing a child act like that makes me want to mother them. Lol blessings xxoo Login to Reply L Milton Hankins Date: 1/17/2022 2:08:00 PM When he tried it in a store, we did the same thing. I can recall standing at the door and saying to someone, "Just a minute, please, my son is in there throwing a tantrum!" They would smile and wait patiently until I retrieved him. It must have worked, for he is a very successful even-tempered fifty-four year old now! L Milton Hankins Date: 1/17/2022 2:07:00 PM I understand completely, Connie. We learned how to solve the problem rather nicely. When he would throw a tantrum, we would put him in the bathroom and tell him to enjoy himself. Of course, we stood outside the door, and very soon the tantrum would stop because it was no fun to throw one without an audience. He soon learned the only thing a tantrum got him was isolation. It worked.