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The Fear Of Being Alone

If your behavior is a reflection
     of what others say you are,
          you’ll behave as they like
               because you don’t want to be alone.

When you search within,
     you’ll find your authentic self.
          By being who you are,
               you no longer have a fear of being alone.

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Rowena Velasco Date: 8/3/2025 6:06:00 AM Such a grounding reminder. I love how this gently shifts from people-pleasing to self-realization. That final line is especially powerful—freedom begins when we no longer fear being alone. Beautifully said. Login to Reply Bill Baker Date: 8/3/2025 10:36:00 AM Thank you for your mindful comments, Rowena. I was always a people person, never alone until I met Sara. She was a loner, thoughtful and secure in being herself and knowing she could make it alone. I've learned that I don't have to have someone with me every step of the way. I still love people, I'm just not dependent on them to whole. Have a great week! Hugs, Bill

Sotto Poet Date: 8/3/2025 5:04:00 AM A truth that, my dear Bill, each of us must adhere to if we are to lead peaceful lives. Word for word, your words resonated with me. Furthermore, I find it admirable that you are so open and honest about your love for your beautiful wife. Login to Reply Bill Baker Date: 8/3/2025 10:39:00 AM We are different but were meant to be together. We seem to complete each other. There're still problems from time to time, we just know that they pass and our Love for each other never changes. Thanks for the compliment, you are one of our dearest friends here on Poetry Soup. Bill

Deb M Date: 8/2/2025 11:30:00 PM I love having alone time but am scared of the alone time that may lay ahead if my husband leaves this world before me ... l have been with him since we were teenagers can't imagine life without him by my side...and that 'alone' scares me so much. Sorry Bill lm sounding a bit gloomy ha....love your poem...Will resonate with many! Your buddy Debx Login to Reply Deb M Date: 8/3/2025 11:14:00 AM I would like my husband and l to go together also Bill….but alas we have no say in it….l cant imagine a life without him….l don't want to think about it anymore thankyou hehe! Thankyou Bill that is such a special compliment and l feel the same my friend! Debx Bill Baker Date: 8/3/2025 10:45:00 AM Thank you for the personal comment, Deb. I know it will be hard when a spouse passes, I pray often that God will allow Sara and I to pass at the same time. It seems selfish to me because I'm 7 years older, but Sara is the one that first brought the topic up and prays for the same thing. You are a blessing in our lives, Deb. Love and hugs from both of us. Bill & Sara Deb M Date: 8/3/2025 3:15:00 AM From your poems and comments Anne you seem like the sweetest most caring lady. Thankyou for the loveliness you have shown toward me….l truly do appreciate you! Debx Anne Winter Date: 8/2/2025 11:46:00 PM Your true love for your husband is so beautiful and I admire your vulnerability. Your words melted my heart and got me emotional. I felt every word you wrote dear Deb.

Anne Winter Date: 8/2/2025 11:10:00 PM Dear Bill, being alone is the best thing there is, in my opinion. The best way to find one self. That is how I found the poet in me. Your poem is beautifully written! The joy of being alone is what I believe in especially as an introvert. My best to you, Anne Login to Reply Bill Baker Date: 8/3/2025 10:47:00 AM On the outside everyone you see me as an extrovert, but as I became more aware of my authentic self; I see myself as naturally an introvert. Blessings my sweet friend. Hugs Bill

Len Gasun Date: 8/2/2025 10:11:00 PM Great word of wisdom expressed creatively in a gorgeous poem my dear poet friend, Bill. A fave. Thanks for sharing this precious gem my dear friend. Sorry for the late visit. I'd health problem the past few weekds due to a bike accident. But thanks God, I'm fine now. Thanks a lot for sharing. Blessings to you always & your family/loved ones. Hugs Login to Reply Bill Baker Date: 8/2/2025 11:00:00 PM Sorry to hear of your accident, Len. I'm thankful God is helping you through this challenge. Thanks for reading and commenting on my poetry, my sweet friend. Smiles ~ Blessings Hugs, Bill p.s. oops! Thank you for the FAV! It always mays me smile when I receive one from a friend. :-)