On a Transgender Child

A transgender child
does not not exist 
just because a white man 
says that that is so
as two spirited
third genders 
and others
(eight in the Talmud! that I didn’t know)
exist around the globe
as in the
hijra of India
fa’afafine of Samoa
burrnesha of Albania
quariwarmi of Peru
guevedoche of Dominican Republic
muxe of Oaxaca
sekrata of Madagascar 
fakaleiti of Tonga
lhamana of Zuni
winkte of Lakota
bakla of Philippines 
acault of Burma
xanith of Oman
and waria of Indonesia
just to name a few

gender is as binary
as is the world is flat
asserting so otherwise 
is simply spewing scat
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Vaso Avatar
March 14, 2025 at 4:45 PM
On the spectrum of human dignity it seems on one side its filled with compassion, empathy, understanding, and intelligence and on the other side simple ignorance.
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 15, 2025 at 7:21 AM
~x
Greenhough Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 11:49 PM
I had too many words. I'll have to post it as a verse.
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 14, 2025 at 6:06 AM
Happy to inspire?
Kaufman Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 5:46 PM
Congratulations Maureen on the honor of POTD. It's amazing how so many people seem to lack empathy for those that are born transgender and I suppose feel threatened that they actually exist. We all need to show more compassion toward others in general.
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 14, 2025 at 6:05 AM
I wholeheartedly agree! Thank you lovely, xomo!
Gorelick Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 3:44 PM
Homosexuality was listed as a mental disorder by the APA until 1974. Now they recognize that human sexuality and proclivities have an innate wide and varied range. Left-handed people were once forced to be right-handed to avoid the scorn of the "Left hand of God" Yes, there are two genders- But, like colors, they come in a variety of tones and variations. Good/bad, Right/wrong Black/white- makes things easy but grossly inaccurate. We are nuanced creatures! Congratulations Mo! Robert
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 14, 2025 at 6:05 AM
Nuanced indeed. Thank you so much for your bright contribution to our conversation here. Thank you Robert for the congratulations, xomo
Beaufort Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 3:18 PM
Hi Maureen, well....I read all the comments after reading your poem. Reasonable people accept the fact that while there are two sexes (xx-female and xy-male chromosome pairs), there are many variations on gender and how people develop. Your poem points out this is nothing new. The human brain doesn't always match with the chromosome make up in the cells for a variety of scientific reasons. A fair society allows accommodation for this phenomenon and leaves it up to the individuals, parents, and their medical advisors. I can understand the reasons you suggest why some people don't get it. Focusing on trans as evil or disgusting is a step in rousing the rabble, cementing power through religious intolerance, or simply misgivings and hatred people feel for something different. I love what you've stated here for us to consider. You've inspired my next poem. Smiles, of course!!!
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 14, 2025 at 6:01 AM
It’s a lot of feelings, opinions and dangerous misconceptions for less than one percent of the population. History has taught us, the most vulnerable minorities are the first to go under this type of regime change. Delighted to inspire you, you humble me, and warm my heart, thank you Duke. xomo
Trestrail Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 7:32 PM
I must be speaking in code and your enigma machine is on the fritz. FYI I didn’t say it was evil or disgusting, and has nothing to do with hate or religious intolerance or fascism as the author of this POTD suggests. I’m saying for the umteenth time that no prepubescent or pubescent child is transgender. Have you tried switching it off and on again?
Allison Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 4:25 PM
well said Duke I agree 100%
Lane Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 3:26 PM
Duke Beaufort; voice of reason. I nominate you for comment of the day for reading all the comments! ;-)
Bartley Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 2:52 PM
Nicely done. No fingers actually pointed but the obvious is so implied. Thanks for sharing a very worthy POTD!
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 14, 2025 at 5:56 AM
Thank you Benjamin, it’s not my best work, but it is my best heart’s worth. xomo
Gentile Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 1:59 PM
Just perfect Maureen!! hy is the world the way it is! Your poem is exquisite and so very deserving of POTD honors! Enjoy your day !!
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 14, 2025 at 5:55 AM
Thank you Mike. It had to get out from under my skin. <3 xomo
Sambourne Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 11:58 AM
Superb poem, Maureen. I taught at a Secondary Level Arts school for 10 years before retirement. I encountered several late adolescent students transitioning from birth gender to the one woven into their essence of self. Acceptance, support, inclusion - all givens within the school system. Wish that those steeped in harsh judgement could accept a non-judgemental view of the gender re-assignment process. So challenging for the crusaders making the change. Be well.
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 12:29 PM
I wish the same, lovely said. Thank you so much Brian. xomo
Anaya Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 8:36 AM
Mo, excited to see you and the cause as potd, shows admin has good character, maybe he/she is transgender? Yay Two-spirit is a contemporary pan-Indian umbrella term used by Indigenous, native people who fulfill a traditional third-gender (or other gender-variant). How cool is that! Every time a poet used god and far left stuff to be cruel to transgenders, I’d post a huge poster of trans people as happy as can be. The Sister’s of Perpetual Indulgence (trans nuns) haha I met two of the sis’s sweetest loveliest hearts in nuns drag! Bible thumpers. They’ll live in fear because of STALE minds like hers (not just proud boys) in a now backwards America, thanks to her patriot vote. Congratulations on POTD Maureen! excellent message! xhugs hugs, hugs
Anaya Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 11:39 AM
Yeah, oh my goodness it was huge news they were banned "We Got a Crowd That's In a Frenzy Bob" found it! 5/23/23 (3383 hits), most I think I've ever gotton...My titles aren't obvious of what the article is about, but I think you'll get a hoot out of it!
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 11:33 AM
…did you edit or did I read it wrong? I want to see them, they sound divine.
Anaya Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 11:28 AM
My bad, not a rock band! "The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence" drag queens I did a huge article on them, but I think she had it removed! I'll check..it was around March 31st (transgender holiday) I can't find it.
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 11:10 AM
Thank you so much lovely! I am not familiar with The Sisters of Mercy of which you speak, for me it’s my beloved Leonard Cohen and my fondly remembered goth days dancing away to the so named band… do sing this corrosion to me ;), HUGS!
Turner Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 8:11 AM
Congratulations on POTD Mo but I guess I too am a "fascist" I'm on the other side of this issue. God created man and woman, that's as far as I need to go. However I am happy you are being honored.
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 11:04 AM
Thank you Daniel. Of note, I did not call anybody a fascist; my comment was referring to what is happening now and the documented evolution of the fascist state beginning with the stripping of the human rights of the LGBTQ+.
Roper Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 7:39 AM
I commend you for your brave words, Maureen. Big Congratulations on POTD.
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 10:56 AM
Thank you Eve, xomo!
Rodgers Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 6:42 AM
Dear Maureen, I am so glad you shine a light on gender issues and are so deserving of POTD. I am a therapist and have managed a Center City Office in Philadelphia for the past 10 years. We treat every single person who walks through our office doors with love, dignity, and respect, for we know we have a severely hurting population. We have specific groups that work with the LGBTQ+, as well as others such as trauma, addictions, suicidal, and mental health in general. Spring Blessings, My Dear Friend, Daniel
M  Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 9:53 AM
You touch everyone's Daniel!!
Anaya Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 9:16 AM
Mine too! bravisimo
Roper Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 7:22 AM
bravo , Daniel... you touched my heart.
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 7:02 AM
Thank you so much Daniel, for contributing here and for all that you do. You brought tears to my eyes in all the best ways. xomo
May Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 6:39 AM
As Charlotte said, The sinister "reassignment" of gender on innocent children is very disturbing, Congrats on POTD
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 6:40 AM
That would be very disturbing. Fortunately, that is not how it works.
Puddifoot Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 6:16 AM
when i was at school we never questioned our gender or even thought about it..why? because we weren't being subjected to constant brainwashing by the media, politically correct schools and loopy parents..there's a very sinister agenda afoot - the brainwashing and sexualisation of children - what's going on is a form of child abuse, and i don't care if people attack me for saying it
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 6:45 AM
This is why the suicide rates are so high. Personally, I think the little girls all dolled up in beauty pageants are more indicative of the abuse you are suggesting.
Trestrail Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 6:24 AM
Totally agree, and I couldn’t give a flying fig either.
Lane Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 5:11 AM
Has anyone seen the video, The Troll Man Cometh? It has nothing to do with transgender and neither should it be an issue with a poem being recognized as potd. Congratulations on your lines having been chosen today, Mo.
Lane Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 7:05 AM
It’s for real and a fitting comment when I made it.
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 6:50 AM
Thank you Lin. (is that video for real? Looked up on youtube, a video game) ;),
Lawless Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 5:02 AM
I have known several who have undergone this "transition". They simply did what they needed to do and in both cases did it with class and understanding of those confused by their situation. I thanked them for never changing the core of who they are...
Trestrail Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 7:39 PM
Adults can do as they please, kids should be off limits.
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 6:49 AM
Thank you for sharing your experience and your own understanding of what they endure just to be able to live comfortably in their own skin. I always knew you were a good egg ~xomo
Trestrail Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 3:29 AM
We have children struggling with gender dysphoria but there ain’t no such thing as a transgender child. Look who got POTD.
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 14, 2025 at 7:07 PM
Infallible as always.
Trestrail Avatar
March 14, 2025 at 5:48 PM
I know why he deleted them. And FYI he’s deleted them again. Tells you everything you need to know about him.
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 14, 2025 at 5:49 AM
Keith, I don’t know why Arthur deleted your comments, could be the conflation of antisemitism with antizionism, could be they were just off topic and or hate filled. What I will say of myself, I am most impressed that the wisdom and facts derived from all of science, history and anthropology have zero affect on your steadfast opinion.
Trestrail Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 7:08 AM
It’s time for this hamster to jump off the wheel. Bedtime down here you know. Got a big day tomorrow.
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 6:59 AM
JAMA less than 1%, NIH less than 1%, American Journal of Surgery less than 1%…
Trestrail Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 6:50 AM
Is that the same New England Journal of Medicine who had to retract scientific articles about Covid because they lied about it? Their credibility is busted and their findings agenda driven. Next.
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 6:33 AM
Keith, gender dysmorphia is treated with counseling and gender affirming care, which for minors is puberty blockers, nothing surgical, and puberty blockers are in fact reversible. “According to the New England Journal of Medicine regret rates for gender affirming surgery are practically non existent.”
Gifford Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 3:13 AM
Hello Maureen, congratulations on your POTD win with your brilliantly written piece. Found it an informative read. Thanks for sharing. Have a great day, my poet friend.
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 7:14 AM
Thank you Zyrool, a wonderful day to you too! xomo :)
Kitchin Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 3:04 AM
Mo, a powerful poem, congratulations on POTD.
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 7:16 AM
Thank you Tania, the feelings were big ;), xomo!
Kavanagh  Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 2:50 AM
The world is kinda flat at the poles Maureen or at least flatter, and a person trapped inside the wrong body may well feel poles apart from everyone else, doesn’t mean they should be sent there to live in solitary confinement, yes the pronouns can be somewhat confusing, but not to the extreme some religious organisations (or those that hide behind them) make them out to be, congratulations on a very informative and educational POTD! Cheers David
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 7:19 AM
Thank you dear, I am a fire starter, apparently. xomo!
Cunningham Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 2:49 AM
Well written Mo, congratulations to you on today's POTD honour. Tom
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 7:21 AM
Hi Tom, thank you! It’s the poem I set out to write, but the muse has its ways. I meant to write on care and acknowledgment is suicide prevention but this came out. xomo
M  Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 2:49 AM
Everyone has the right to be their authentic selfs and be happy in this world and if you are born in the wrong skin you do what you have to do to be the real YOU! Great poem Mo! Congratulations on POTD my friend! Debx
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 7:17 AM
Thank you Lovely. There is so much more to this existence than any one of our little brains can comprehend. Warm hugs! xomo
Edmonds  Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 2:41 AM
The world was made for you and for me, without a thought of diversity. No telling how one’s lives should be lived, that’s all up to us, remember this. Congratulations Maureen on receiving the honour of poem of the day… Beryl
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 6:42 AM
Indeed. There are so many centuries of cultures and so many more ways to express one’s self let alone gene expression. Thank you Beryl.
Allison Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 2:35 AM
dropping back with many congrats on potd mo xx
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 3:33 PM
dang, that’s where that comment went, thank YOU you lol xomo!!!
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 6:39 AM
Thank you Anne-Lise, sunshine & hugs! ~mo
Andresen Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 1:56 AM
- Facts on the table, Maureen :) - Congratulations on your p.o.t.d. ... enjoy :) - hugs
Pigeon Tart Avatar
March 13, 2025 at 7:13 AM
Thank you Anne-Lise! Hugs to you too! ~mo
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