Love's Parameters

I watched a young mother slapping her child
Unmercifully in his face today 
And wanted to return the favor
Equally, in a like-wise manner.
I’ve no earthly idea what the child must have done
To find himself the recipient of this unnecessary abuse
And was enraged at his predicament
While watching helplessly.

I contrasted this picture 
With other scenes I’ve witnessed
Whereby other mothers permit their children 
The most unruly and inappropriate behavior imaginable.
The difference between extremes of abusive behavior 
And an appropriate amount of gentle, loving persuasion
Which every child needs and craves
Is a matter of degree.

In all life’s fecundities a balance must be sought,
Attempted to be achieved
To create the ideal coalescence 
In the universe that leads
To peace, harmony and equanimity.
Parents need not be maltreating 
Their children as if lesser human beings
Nor allowing them unmitigated freedom
Void of boundaries or limitations.

Life is all about learning 
How far we can go
And the wise teacher is one 
Who teaches we are all arrows
In potential or released 
From the confines of a bow…

Human limits
Are meant to be stretched, expanded 
While love provides the parameters
Between feeling comfortably at home 
And lost or stranded.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2011

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Walker Avatar
December 7, 2011 at 6:41 PM
A true commentary on today's parenting skills. The contrast very clearly shown! Good work with a good message.
Brown Avatar
December 6, 2011 at 12:50 PM
Congrats on your featured poem this week Terrell. Love, Carol
Wesley Avatar
August 24, 2011 at 11:01 PM
Your story is so true, they either run wild or are beaten. Sadly we no longer have time or patience to deal with the most important people in our lives: our children. Your beautiful words are so appropriate.
Mister Roboto Avatar
August 5, 2011 at 7:47 AM
I have been writing for years and must admit I would need to bust out the thesaurus to fully understand this poem. I do know the general meaning though. Parenting is at an all time low these days. The extremes you describe are shocking. Is this your natural vocabulary. If so, I commend you. No offense is meant by my comments, so please take none. You have talent.
Baity Avatar
August 4, 2011 at 11:52 AM
Wow... what a profound poem and so very true. You are indeed a talented poet Terrel. Thanks for sharing your gift. And have a Very Blessed Day. I look forward to reading more
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