Jephthahs Daughter

If you make a vow to the Lord your God, you shall not delay fulfilling it, for the Lord your God will surely require it of you, and you will be guilty of sin. But if you refrain from vowing, you will not be guilty of sin. You shall be careful to do what has passed your lips, for you have voluntarily vowed to the Lord your God what you have promised with your mouth.

— Deuteronomy 23:21-23

Are our vows sacred? Are we hasty with our lips? One should not be caught up in a snare…do we dare trust our tongue to promises? Is the fruit of our womb deemed precious such that we ponder our words so we do not bruise the fruit?

— the poet

Jephthah’s Daughter

Leave me alone so that I may weep with my friends.
For two months I will proclaim, “I will never marry.”
My father in victory leads. God avenged his enemies.
But Jephthah made a vow, that after a victorious return
whatever comes out of the door of his house will burn
as an offering to the Lord. Oaths made were kept.
So I will not quarrel with him or say, “How could you?”
I came out to meet him, dancing and with tambourines.
He tarried not in telling me of his misery and vow.
This unmarried virgin merely asked for time to grieve,
for God of all gave the Ammonites into my father’s hands.
Each year the daughters of Israel commemorate
the virgin who was left alone to weep with her friends.

11/20/2021
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Horsman Avatar
November 21, 2021 at 7:23 PM
To believe in what is good and know what is bad, seems somewhere to be lost. Love the story and your poetry from the bible Kim. Thank you
Rodrigues Avatar
November 21, 2021 at 8:50 PM
Sad and true. Thank you, Harry!
Krutsinger Avatar
November 21, 2021 at 4:18 PM
I truly love this - especially this part "I came out to meet him, dancing and with tambourines." Happy Thanksgivings!
Rodrigues Avatar
November 21, 2021 at 8:51 PM
Happy Thanksgiving! <3
Calasibetta Avatar
November 21, 2021 at 9:06 AM
Kim, poignant and a message for humankind to take heed. Vows that are made should never be betrayed. Blessings, Paulette
Rodrigues Avatar
November 21, 2021 at 10:10 AM
Thank you, Paulette! xx
Roper Avatar
November 20, 2021 at 9:04 PM
Very good, Kim. Respect for what you promise should be kept. goood luck
Rodrigues Avatar
November 21, 2021 at 5:16 AM
Thank you, Eve!
Wolf Avatar
November 20, 2021 at 8:45 PM
Kim, you are right about the gravity of making vows or swearing oaths... In fact, in Orthodox Jewish courts, many will pay smaller debts that they do not owe rather than swear an oath that they don't really owe anything or that they stole something... 'A man's word is his bond' is not to be taken lightly. Kudos, Gershon
Rodrigues Avatar
November 21, 2021 at 5:15 AM
Thank you, Gershon. Oh that this world would tell the truth and keep their promises.
Brown Avatar
November 20, 2021 at 5:42 PM
Thanks Kim, I enjoyed the poem and the Bible study. This nicely written ~ Debra
Rodrigues Avatar
November 20, 2021 at 6:03 PM
Thank you, Debra!
Buhagiar Avatar
November 20, 2021 at 12:05 PM
I have always wondered what actually happened to that poor girl. She could not marry because she was pure. But the vow required a sacrifice. In those olden days although killing a child as a sacrifice was not permitted, the vow was death. Yet we do not know really. The bible says nothing. Hugs.
Rodrigues Avatar
November 20, 2021 at 2:11 PM
You are right, Victor! We do not know. I think it is meant to point us to the gravity of making vows to God. God bless, you :)
Buehler Avatar
November 20, 2021 at 10:35 AM
An engrossing and moving verse, and a reminder that our word is our bond. Nicely written, Kim.
Rodrigues Avatar
November 20, 2021 at 2:11 PM
Yes it is! Thank you, sweet lady!
DiMino Avatar
November 20, 2021 at 8:13 AM
Well written. Soul stirring...strange though to think, that God would condone anything that would bring sorry. Food for thought.
Rodrigues Avatar
November 20, 2021 at 9:13 AM
It was old testament times. Perhaps it is more thought provoking. God is indeed merciful. Still we shouldn’t make promises we don’t intend to keep. No one was required to make a promise to God. Funny how most when they are in great jeopardy will make a vow to God. “If you save me…I will do xyz for you” Thank you, Joe!
Rigoler Avatar
November 20, 2021 at 7:47 AM
Yes, our vows are important, and both Jephthah and his daughter kept theirs. I doubt most "christians" would follow suit. / Maurice
Rodrigues Avatar
November 20, 2021 at 9:09 AM
Something we should ponder. Thanks, Maurice!
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