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Aug. 16, 2011
For the Contest of Constance La France ~ A Rambling Poet ~
"I Fancy Another Sad Poem"

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In a Moment's Clarity

My stepdad, stricken with a terrible disease, suffered for over a decade as his mind slowly unraveled. Bits and pieces of it vanished. He had to be removed from the house in which he'd helped Mom raise all of us kids. At the rest home, seeped in dementia and confused by a recent surgery whose aim he could not comprehend, he cried out helplessly, but seeing our mom, he took her hand and gently whispered, "You're the one I've been thinking of."
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George   Avatar
May 26, 2020 at 3:07 PM
I see you wrote this back in 2011. A great Etheree, Andrea. So nice to read your great works again. ~ Elaine
Watt Avatar
May 25, 2020 at 11:23 PM
This IS a sad poem, but with a very endearing end. Who can ever know what dwells in the mind when it isn't what it once was, but they deserve to be surrounded with love and reminded of those pleasant memories from long ago. Very touching, friend. Congrats on your #1 placement today. Hugs ~ John
A   Avatar
September 19, 2011 at 5:52 AM
This is a very touching etheree .. you fancied it well... Made me sad really the first one... I know the dreadful disease..... P.s..... By the way... About... C..blog... Yes I ended it with a friendly note... Of course I'm mad.. over an issue with my sister Sidney... She told me things said here about me that other day, .... About back stabbing (so called friends)... That is y I stick to myself Andrea.. I'm not trying to make friends here anymore.. LOL.. that Tracie, girl sounds funny.. xox
Brown Avatar
August 23, 2011 at 8:31 AM
Congratulations on your placement in Constance's "I Fancy Another Sad Poem" contest Andrea. I am honored to be on the winners list with you. Love, Carol
Johnson Avatar
August 21, 2011 at 7:55 PM
sad and alone, lost in me head, who am i , where am i , lost me bed, bloody awful dementia ....great poem babe...xo, Don
Neels Avatar
August 21, 2011 at 1:04 PM
I am so glad this beauty made it to the list Andrea, congratulations on your win in the contest ;) love Wilma
Quigley Avatar
August 21, 2011 at 12:25 PM
Such a touching memory well versed. Congratulations Andrea
Roberts Avatar
August 21, 2011 at 11:56 AM
truly touching memory, congrats on your win Andrea
Ball Avatar
August 21, 2011 at 11:54 AM
Awwww! He loved her so much she was the once thing this horrible illness couldn't make him forget. How beautiful! Congrats on your win with this my friend. God Bless, JB
Sweetheart Avatar
August 21, 2011 at 11:13 AM
Congrats Andrea on your fourth place win my friend with this elegant entry luv.. enjoy as we are so enjoying our time in the Florida sunshine with three grand babies ..oh so fun..luv..
Susan Avatar
August 21, 2011 at 10:54 AM
I like how you said his mind unraveled, vanished. very powerful. congratulations on your win!
Williams Avatar
August 21, 2011 at 5:48 AM
hey Andrea congrats on your win David
Freeman Avatar
August 20, 2011 at 9:43 PM
Such sentiments Andrea, Worthy of honor. Agape, Moses
Babcock Avatar
August 18, 2011 at 10:57 PM
It is sad when someone gets dementia and it must have been hard on your mom and you the children. Life has many upsets. Well we finally got our car today and now the air bag warning is coming up- so called them and hope they call back in the morning. Couldn't get on the soup today and I was at the shop so had plenty of time for commenting-not sure what was wrong. love phyl
K. Avatar
August 18, 2011 at 1:49 AM
replied to soupmail :)
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August 17, 2011 at 11:46 PM
Truly a sad affliction, but the moment of clarity was stunning, Andrea. One of our Soup friends is watching her father succumb to dementia and I hope she sees this poem. It might help her get through the hard times to know there was this moment when love could still be expressed. FYI-the toad was in MY commode and the entire poem is true. Caused quite a ruckus among animal lovers who wanted to save it. Best wishes in the contest! Love, Carolyn
K. Avatar
August 17, 2011 at 11:43 AM
Oh wow, those moments of clarity indeed are so precious-- that instance must have been such a gem for your mom-- this is such a moving etheree, Andrea; I know of someone who suffers from dementia and it is so difficult for the family indeed--such a sad write but the way you ended it makes it so bittersweet-- btw I could be wrong (sorry if I am) I believe that is "stricken"-- I am sure Constance will love this very meaningful moment shared... hugs to you sweetie :D
Minardi Avatar
August 17, 2011 at 11:34 AM
Wow... this is sad and very sweet at the same time.
Sumler Avatar
August 17, 2011 at 11:04 AM
Sometimes its hard to deal with sad poetry. Best wishes to you and your family! Truly a touching write!
Kendrick Avatar
August 17, 2011 at 9:05 AM
Andrea, I commented but my comment disappeared..This is such a romantic poem with the sad touch of the Alzheimers...That is such a terrible disease..Now they have a med that helps slow the progression of the illness for awhile..Enjoyed reading this one..I am sure that it will be in the winners' circle..Sara
Neels Avatar
August 17, 2011 at 9:03 AM
Sad and beautiful at the same time.. A dreadful illness Andrea, wishing you all the best for Constance's contest ;) love W
Marcum Wong Avatar
August 17, 2011 at 12:50 AM
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August 16, 2011 at 11:18 PM
This brought tears to my eyes Andrea. Your ending was so touching. I see you found out how to post your poem so it will come out in the center. I am still not sure how to do it. Best of luck in the contest. You know I am a big fan of your etheree and this is a really exceptional one. Hugs, Connie
Sweetheart Avatar
August 16, 2011 at 10:58 PM
so sad Andrea to see a human being and loved one deteriorate in front of us .. it happened to my Mother with cancer.. something u never forget.. a fitting tribute to him luv.. good luck with this sensitive write luv..
Wesley Avatar
August 16, 2011 at 10:30 PM
So moving Andrea and so hard to deal with when it is a family member. My arms are around you and I can tell you have wonderful memories of your dad.
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