I Love Myself For This

I was taught not to love me.
I was to love everyone else.
Strangers even, but not myself.
It was drilled into my head in all possible directions.

The message was to let everyone else win.
To let them achieve, to encourage and uplift.
But not me, never me.
It was not to be.
It was not the way “we” do things.

When I became a mother, I decided to change the script.
I raised my children to love themselves.
I showed them how to give their brains positive self-talk.
I taught them what I had never been taught.
I raised three assertive women who love themselves.

They are not braggadocio.
They are not pompous or arrogant.
They are self-sufficient, hard-working and confident.
They respect themselves.
I love myself for this achievement.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2022

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Bauer Avatar
April 22, 2022 at 11:57 AM
more power to you, caren! i think some of our parents' generation's ideas were really harmful. glad you "changed the script!"
Krutsinger Avatar
April 22, 2022 at 12:41 PM
I completely changed it up, and I have never regretted it.
George Avatar
April 21, 2022 at 10:37 PM
Very Good.... ! Caren, you can be proud of your self reliant daughters ! I was brought up with the same norm as you were... to love others and not me.....as a result lacking self confidence !
Krutsinger Avatar
April 22, 2022 at 2:05 AM
Thank you so much Valsa, I know you understand. My mother said she "did not want us to get a big head" - no danger there.
Hankins Avatar
April 21, 2022 at 9:15 PM
And rightly so...you should be exceptionally proud of your daughters. You gave them something that can never be taken from them...along with many, many good memories of their mother.
Krutsinger Avatar
April 22, 2022 at 2:05 AM
Thank you very much Hank. They have some lulu memories of me!
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