Notes About The Poem

A part of some parents never grew beyond childhood. Such parents are therefore incapable of parenting anyone but themselves. It is to them that "Happy Homes" speaks.

Happy Homes

Happy homes are filled with the noise of 
children;
Unhappy homes the noise of their parents--
Parents who want to have children
But don't want their children to have parents.
In vain their children search them for the 
image of a parent,
Longing to see in their beloved frame 
Someone patient,
Someone caring,
Someone tolerant,
And ready for sacrifice.

But such a one they scorn to be lest they 
lose their chance for fun
Which they both have each day parenting 
their secret inner child--
That little child in some parents embedded 
To whom the outward child is a great rival.
What patience they show this inward child!
And what care, tolerance, & sacrifice too!
At them no angry voice is raised nor a stern 
finger wagged
And not once--never--are they urged to
adulthood.

So upwards now I cast my words  
To firmly perch on the winds that come
So when far and wide they blow this night 
This tip they'll bear to every little child:
"Of such parents are unhappy homes made:
Parents obsessed with their inward child,
The secret child that so fills their hands
Leaving no space for the outward one."
Copyright © | Year Posted 2015

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Joshua Avatar
August 30, 2017 at 4:07 PM
Some happy homes are like foams that melts before the sun......
Kendrick Avatar
October 24, 2016 at 12:42 PM
Creative work that you have penned..For so many people having a child matures them but for some it is total disaster for they are not prepared to be a parent..Sometimes it is caused from the enviroment in which they are reared and for some kind of genetics they received at birth and some it is and/or both..Thanks for stopping by..Sara
Allison Avatar
May 28, 2016 at 9:44 AM
Wise words indeed Agona:-) hugs Jan xx
Apell Avatar
May 29, 2016 at 6:50 AM
Jan, thanks for the warm words!
A   Avatar
February 7, 2016 at 5:18 AM
A wonderful read... WOW, now I wonder what home I am in. I imagine it is SUPER HAPPY... All my children are noisy and crazy and wild. LOL, amazing write my friend. I shall share this with my daughter Royal T... Gosh I wish we could tag these poems. LOVE LINDA
Apell Avatar
February 16, 2016 at 11:33 AM
From what you say, your children are no doubt the blooms of a happy home. Are they poets too? Thanks Linda for the compliments!
Dietrich Avatar
January 25, 2016 at 4:04 PM
very wise words here. You know what is right and what is wrong when it comes to parenting!!
Apell Avatar
January 27, 2016 at 8:09 AM
Thanks, Andrea! It's the curse of these times that we are not poor in examples of wrong parenting.
A  Avatar
January 23, 2016 at 10:13 PM
BRILLIANT POEM............SKAT
Apell Avatar
January 24, 2016 at 11:16 PM
Thanks SKAT for the boost of a compliment! Hope you've had a great start to the year.
Rogers Avatar
December 20, 2015 at 11:41 PM
Great point of view upon children, I like your poem. Children are the joy of families!! Best wishes.
Apell Avatar
December 21, 2015 at 12:49 AM
Samantha, I wish more people saw them in that light. Nice of you to pass by and share your thoughts. Best wishes for the season!
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