Growing up to fast and coming of age

Growing up to fast, Coming of age. Both about maturity but different One witnessed something they were not supposed to see, while the other saw when ready One forced to be a man, the other gradually becoming a man One having a parent who would mentally abuse, while the other has two amazing parents One having to work hard just to get a tiny bit of affection or recognition, while the other does not need to try Growing up to quickly and Coming of age both involve maturity and growing up but are they really the same?