Notes About The Poem

My mother stayed 37yrs. old longer than anyone I have ever known. She never admitted her age until she was old enough to draw a Social Security check. I guess she figured if she was going to have to admit her age they had to pay her. lol

The Bible tells us:

"WHITE HAIR IS A CROWN OF GLORY AND IS SEEN MOST AMONG THE GODLY."                                                                                                                                 Proverbs 16:31                                                                                                                                

Getting Older

Time and tide they do not wait,
We all have heard it said,
And there are some who seem to view,
The ebb and flow with dread.

They do their best to stave it off,
And live in deep denial,
Trying not to show their age,
And viewing it as trial.

A tribulation of some sort,
A thing to be avoided,
Forgetting in their quest for youth,
That age can be exploited;

For with age comes experience,
That younger folks don't have.
Things that you have done before,
Is to them enclave.

A thing to them as yet untried,
Is foreign territory.
They'll listen to your wisdom,
And practiced oratory;

For things that to the younger set,
Appear a mystery,
For older folks is just old hat,
And it's just history;

So if we learn to use our age,
Accept it as a friend,
We'll age as does fine wine and so,
Won't face a bitter end.

We have to learn to face some facts,
That some things must betide.
You can run from age my friend,
But you can never hide.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2021

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Babcock Avatar
September 1, 2021 at 7:00 PM
Well we can run from age but yes we cannot hide. Will keep you in my prayers.love phyl
Ball Avatar
September 6, 2021 at 10:04 PM
Thanks bunches Phyl. God Bless, JB
Rodrigues Avatar
August 31, 2021 at 10:16 AM
Embracing my age (60) in all its wisdom!
Ball Avatar
September 1, 2021 at 2:59 PM
You are but a babe my friend. Come Oct. 14 I will be 74 but I have decided to turn it around and be 47. Thanks bunches. God Bless, JB
Messina Avatar
August 31, 2021 at 6:16 AM
Age is just a number, Judy. A lovely write...god bless your mother! Also, sending prayers your way dear friend. I hope for a speedy recovery...feel well soon. Sending love & Hugs ~Charlie
Ball Avatar
September 6, 2021 at 9:55 PM
Thanks bunches Charlie. God Bless, JB
Gregory Avatar
August 30, 2021 at 2:00 PM
well written Judy. I love the line of an enclave my experience seen as such.
Ball Avatar
August 31, 2021 at 3:18 AM
Thank you so much my friend. God Bless, JB
Imtiaz Avatar
August 21, 2021 at 1:50 AM
The great reality with amazing skills
Ball Avatar
August 31, 2021 at 3:46 AM
Thanks so much Muhammed. God Bless, JB
Babcock Avatar
July 28, 2021 at 12:16 PM
We never want to get old but that is beyond our control. The white hair arrives and before we know it the years have flown by. Awesome my friend. love phyl
Ball Avatar
August 31, 2021 at 3:55 AM
Thanks bunches Phyl. God Bless and thanks for your wonderful reviews. Could use some prayer if you don't mind. God Bless, JB
Horsman Avatar
July 28, 2021 at 7:59 AM
This is amazing poetry Judy, just love your philosophy.
Ball Avatar
August 31, 2021 at 4:02 AM
Thanks so much Harry. God Bless, JB
Romios Avatar
July 26, 2021 at 11:34 PM
Aging can be great or not. It's just something there. Like air. I laugh at any Poet who thinks they are old at 60. Age means diddly, how you live it, is what counts. YOU ARE NOT YOUR AGE. YOU ARE FAR MORE. YOU ARE AN ETERNAL SPIRIT IN A BODY. Fine write! Xxoo
Ball Avatar
August 31, 2021 at 4:02 AM
Thanks bunches Pangie. God Bless, JB
Y. Avatar
July 23, 2021 at 9:22 PM
Hi Judy, You've penned such a well-written piece on getting older. I agree with the gist of your write; however, I think people are bombarded with the notion it's something wrong with accepting and owning their age. Excellent write. Have a good evening and weekend:-) Alexis
Ball Avatar
August 31, 2021 at 4:04 AM
Thanks so much Alexis. God Bless, JB
Mcconnell Avatar
July 22, 2021 at 1:45 PM
Nice piece Judy, really wise and insightful thoughts indeed. Hope all is well, blessings always, Gordon
Ball Avatar
August 31, 2021 at 4:12 AM
Thanks bunches Gordon. God Bless, JB
Daniel Avatar
July 21, 2021 at 7:40 AM
Some things never change, Judy, people just don't want to get old, but that's something none can control, wise poem with a beautiful final stanza:)
Ball Avatar
August 31, 2021 at 4:23 AM
Thanks bunches Jo. God Bless, JB
Dietrich Avatar
July 20, 2021 at 5:03 PM
This was a great read and it made me recall how my mom always hated telling her age. I am the opposite. I feel proud to look younger than my age and to ACT younger. I collect SS this year. One thing I always do is tell my age one year older than I really am because it prepares me for the shock of that NEXT year added on, so I am telling folks I am 66 but really that won't be until Septemeber!!
Ball Avatar
August 31, 2021 at 4:17 AM
Thanks bunches Andrea. God Bless, JB
Balasubramanian Avatar
July 20, 2021 at 11:29 AM
Well said! Why try to look young seems so silly. Last couplet superb!
Ball Avatar
September 1, 2021 at 3:10 PM
Thank you so much Rama. God Bless, JB
Kannan Avatar
July 20, 2021 at 7:03 AM
Rightly said, Judy... Nice one...
Buhagiar Avatar
July 19, 2021 at 10:17 PM
If I had a name for every pain I feel, I would have been dead long ago. So I live from day to day. Hugs
Wolf Avatar
July 19, 2021 at 7:36 PM
Very good, Judy. As they say: 'We're not getting older; we're getting bitter.' lol. ~ gw
Ball Avatar
August 31, 2021 at 4:24 AM
Thanks bunches Gershon. God Bless, JB
Mchattie Avatar
July 19, 2021 at 3:58 PM
So so true. But as I've said before, youth is a million dollar experience I wouldn't pay a nickle to repeat. Well penned my friend.
Ball Avatar
September 1, 2021 at 3:31 PM
I so totally agree. Thanks bunches, God Bless, JB
Loving Iii Avatar
July 19, 2021 at 3:17 PM
A revealing reality still coming into view. But I am there. I loved the last two lines.
Andresen Avatar
July 19, 2021 at 1:40 PM
- "So if we learn to use our age, Accept it as a friend " ... I agree ... so nicely put, Judy :) - hugs // Anne-Lise :)
Ball Avatar
July 19, 2021 at 2:30 PM
Thanks bunches Anne-Lise. God Bless, JB
Merryman Avatar
July 19, 2021 at 1:35 PM
Judy, I enjoyed your poem! The last two lines were perfect! Blessings, Kim M
Ball Avatar
July 19, 2021 at 2:29 PM
Thanks bunches Kim. God Bless, JB
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