Fire of Obvious Contradiction Love

A question eats my soul Everything is relative Or is everything of absolutes? Because everything is together If happiness or sadness are transitory. In the passing of the hot time of love, it should be heal? If only and only alone Relativity is absolute so me Why should there be sadness? Because everything, even sadness is relative! I know that my love for you is absolute And The sadness of your distance may seem relative But there is relativity that is absolute. It means it is always truly why? This is an obvious contradiction!? That's why I'm crazy My laughing is transitory and temporary The sad of my love is more always .why?