Conversational Subject

I need to find better people to talk to at work. I feel like I am being corrupted. Being a guy. I never used to talk like this, I never even thought about it as much as I have. They have different opinions on what a relationship is. They do not know how to define love. They only care about one thing. Unfortunately it doesn't help me, since I could never look at my significant other as an object. I hope I never get to that point, that I do not come to the same ill fated fate that so many have. That my relationship may grow, that I might love unconditionally, and look at my lady with love. That I may show her love, and please her, not as an object, but as the subject of my life.