Child Behaviour

you can't blame your Parents or the government your life was created by your choices yet how does fate play it's part are you saying parents have no effect on child development Are you saying that teachers have no effect on child development or is it just an excuse, for people to escape responsibility It's not your fault it's just his nature you can't blame the parents you can't blame the Government he has attention deficit disorder You can't blame the parents you can't blame the Government the child life is created by their choices yet their is some truth to this argument A child starts avoiding school because the child chooses to avoid school perhaps the child is getting picked on by bullies perhaps the child can't keep up with the teachers writing on the blackboard perhaps they can't do their homework because they can't understand their notes and going back to school without homework They get told off day after day so the child starts avoiding school perhaps their parents arguing means the child can't concentrate perhaps they give up on studying because other children call them a nerd perhaps they become scared of school because of the violence from other children perhaps they avoid school because they just want to have fun laughing and giggling fun and games with other children Granted sometimes it is about choices sometimes the child is just naughty sometimes it is the child's fault I'm just saying there are many reasons for behaviour one child will avoid school to avoid bullying one child will avoid school just because they can sometimes it can be a mixture of both Sometimes we are so ready to lay blame we don't take the time to listen ever thought the child avoiding school might have a eyesight problem and not be able to keep up with notes taken from a blackboard not be able to get home work done and begin to hate school because of criticism and punishment from the teachers. Instead of making blankets statements to cover behaviour Perhaps we should take the time to listen each child can have a different reason for the same behaviour some are avoiding bullying some are just being naughty some can't learn as fast as others some can't do their homework because they don't understand Others don't do their homework because they can't be bothered some have parents bickering and fighting in the house some have parents on drugs or alcohol each child can have the same behaviour for a different reason