Black and Proud

Why is it that we as black (we being the black people who do it) have this sad tendency of thinking that white is the ultimate thing? What do I mean? She's so pretty,ungathi ngumlungu? She thinks she's better then everyone,and acts like a white person? Look at the way she speaks English( normally because the person speaks fluent english) she thinks she's white?! Did you hear what she said? She said she likes rock music (she must think she's white) Her hair is so long and silky ,she must have European blood( as if a black person can't have beautiful hair) We oppress ourselves by thinking that "white" is the race to aspire to be,when we actually really know nothing about the white community because we barely even know any white person (no offence to my "white" friends??) but really,maybe it's time we take the good things that with being "black" and make them a part of who we are as well.