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Written May 3 2026

Big Mama is Family

Big Mama was much more than a slave
She was born of African descent 
Because she was stolen away 
I’ll likely never know my African kin

To be black in America is a struggle 
For everyone wants you to believe 
That remembering Big Mama is trouble
That you should get over it let it be

Big Mama is my ancestor who I love 
Despite what history books ignore
Her photo is black and white untouched
In my family it is a treasure stored

I can not call her by her name
That too is a cranberry crime
But her strength is like red flame
That ignited and united family line

I notice her long flowing dress
Imagine it took hours to press
We still have her iron who’d guess
The hands that touched it were blessed

She doesn’t smile in the photo
As was custom of her day
But from above she smiles I know
For she lived and made a way

For me to see her in her life 
Standing there by a huge tree
A matriarch a queen with pride
Who had to die to finally be free.

So Big Mama with brown eyes
Our family will honor you eternally 
May your soul stay free and rise
May we one day meet as family
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Proxenos Avatar
May 9, 2026 at 10:22 AM
What a heartfelt tribute to your family history and its past with Big Mama. I applaud this wonderful poem, and that Big Mama has united your family - the love for her is magnetic KAREN, throughout. God bless you and all your loving family. I have lived in Zimbabwe, Zambia and South Africa since I was 5, AFRICA is my country also. Hugs and love, Jennifer.
Jones Avatar
May 10, 2026 at 4:42 AM
Thanks for your warm words Jennifer. I am American and long to see the native land where big mama was from. Have a wonderful weekend and Mother’s Day! Hugs and love!
Legros Kelley Avatar
May 7, 2026 at 4:35 PM
'A matriarch a queen with pride Who had to die to finally be free.' And she is free indeed! I bet she wears a lovely crown upon her head placed there by the King Himself. So lovely Karen. I know her heart must just be so pleased to just burst with joy watching over you writing this poem about her, with a radiant smile, you paid her such honor with this precious gem <3
Jones Avatar
May 7, 2026 at 7:07 PM
You are kind thanks Bj!
Gibbons Avatar
May 7, 2026 at 6:39 AM
Beautiful poem written from heart <3
Jones Avatar
May 7, 2026 at 6:54 AM
Thank you!
Wolf Avatar
May 6, 2026 at 8:10 PM
Big Mama appreciates how you restored the crown to its rightful position atop her stately head, Karen. I just know it. ~ Gershon
Jones Avatar
May 6, 2026 at 10:19 PM
Awwww I appreciate you saying that Gershon! Hugs!
Dietrich Avatar
May 6, 2026 at 10:01 AM
Wow. This is an amazing tribute. I think it ought be be a winner in the family contest
Jones Avatar
May 6, 2026 at 2:00 PM
Thanks Andrea but it doesn’t follow the rules so I didn’t enter it
Rodrigues Avatar
May 4, 2026 at 4:55 AM
A beautiful tribute!
Jones Avatar
May 4, 2026 at 5:12 AM
Thanks!
George Avatar
May 3, 2026 at 10:44 PM
This is a powerful tribute to your ancestor who had iron strength and resilience in the midst of all suppressions and adversities. She left a trail of light for her descendants to follow. An inspiring memory and a beautiful poem.
Jones Avatar
May 4, 2026 at 12:37 AM
Thank you Valsa for your warm words! Hugs and blessings!
Godwin Avatar
May 3, 2026 at 4:19 AM
OH. You must save this in a special place. History emotionally impacts feeling people deeply but the unevolved, remain that. There're so many movies w/ true history, I felt need to watch/absorb all, then never do so again. Too few tissues. I have 1800 pics of my 'greats'+ who rooted me but never earth knew me. It's quite a feeling, isn't it? Someday we'll be peered at in photos & they'll look ancient compared to whatever is being used. You moved me, hugs & I will SMILE before clicking gone.
Jones Avatar
May 3, 2026 at 4:41 AM
Yes it is great to have the photos and feel connected. Thanks for sharing CayCay!
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