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Before You Judge


Try not to believe a one sided story

Before you decide to judge

Try not to form an opinion from another’s unkind words

Before you dismiss or hold a grudge


Do not believe what is so readily told to you

To deliberately name and shame 

There are two sides to every story

Open your heart and mind before you defame!

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Emilia James

Date: 8/21/2025 12:14:00 PM

Wise words Deb and totally agree with you. Emilia : )

John Fleming

Date: 8/20/2025 9:03:00 AM

Spot on! Nicely espoused, Deb. :) john

CayCay Jennings

Date: 8/19/2025 5:49:00 PM

I totally agree and, hopefully, live according to that belief. By a certain age, all should know this, but all do not so I'm glad you penned this wisdom. Check 3rd line down, I know it is not as you intended. Good one, and a needed one. Poetry hugs ... Poetry hugs ... CayCay

Sara Etgen-Baker

Date: 8/19/2025 5:35:00 PM

kind, compassionate, and wise words, dear Deb. Making assumptions and judgments is unkind. Thanks for sharing your words today. hugs and blessings, Sara

Daniel Henry Rodgers

Date: 8/19/2025 2:51:00 PM

Dear Deb, such a wise and heartfelt nudge to slow down and listen deeper. I love how you speak with clarity and care just like a friend pulling us gently back from the edge of assumption. It’s got that Deb-style honesty I admire so much, firm, but always kind. Blessings, My Dear Deb, Daniel