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-Before You Judge


Try not to believe a one sided story

Before you decide to judge

Try not to form an opinion from another’s unkind words

Before you dismiss or hold a grudge


Do not believe what is so readily told to you

To deliberately name and shame 

There are two sides to every story

Open your heart and mind before you defame!

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Ron VanHooser

September 25, 2025 at 6:09 PM

Deb, we too often pass judement on others. I try not to but it is a human fallacy we all are subject to. If one were to ask, I would say I accept rather than judge, for judgement requires the whole story and that cannot be known without hearing from all parties...and sometimes not even then. Great job! Ron

Linda Alice Fowler

September 19, 2025 at 9:18 AM

Love it Deb. My mother always said there were three sides to every story: yours, mine, and the way it really is. LOL. I, too, wrote a recent poem on being judgmental. LOL. Like minds? LO :)

Joe Maverick

September 16, 2025 at 11:44 AM

Yeah..But look Debs.' Judges get paid well.' As you know we Aussies are so Selfless ( cash has no power over us ) LOL))) well if shouldn't.. But.???

Paula Goldsmith

September 5, 2025 at 2:51 PM

Your "Before You Judge" is powerful. A Great Write and Ending.... Have a blessed/lovely ~ day/weekend writing away............

Bill Baker

August 26, 2025 at 5:14 PM

Excellent advice and poetry, Deb. Hugs, Bill

Deb M

August 27, 2025 at 9:06 AM

Thanks so much Bill…..cuddles…Debx

Gershon Wolf

August 21, 2025 at 7:40 PM

As usual, sage advice, Deb.

Deb M

August 22, 2025 at 12:44 PM

Aww thanks BB...Debx

Suzanne Delaney

August 21, 2025 at 1:56 PM

I have found that to be true so often, Deb Everyone see through different eyes and perceives situations with different assumptions. Excellent write.

Joe Maverick

September 16, 2025 at 11:50 AM

Yeah but...Think? of all the jobless judges you'd make You two.' And i've only just started my course.'

Deb M

August 23, 2025 at 12:01 PM

Thankyou so much Suz...so lovely to see you back! Debx

Emilia James

August 21, 2025 at 12:14 PM

Wise words Deb and totally agree with you. Emilia : )

Deb M

August 23, 2025 at 12:02 PM

Aww thanks my sweet friend! Debx

John Fleming

August 20, 2025 at 9:03 AM

Spot on! Nicely espoused, Deb. :) john

Deb M

August 23, 2025 at 12:00 PM

Thanks so much John! Debx

CayCay Godwin

August 19, 2025 at 5:49 PM

I totally agree and, hopefully, live according to that belief. By a certain age, all should know this, but all do not so I'm glad you penned this wisdom. Check 3rd line down, I know it is not as you intended. Good one, and a needed one. Poetry hugs ... Poetry hugs ... CayCay

Deb M

August 23, 2025 at 12:03 PM

Thanks so much CayCay as always! Debx

sara Etgen-Baker

August 19, 2025 at 5:35 PM

kind, compassionate, and wise words, dear Deb. Making assumptions and judgments is unkind. Thanks for sharing your words today. hugs and blessings, Sara

Deb M

August 23, 2025 at 12:06 PM

You are very welcome Sara! Debx

Daniel Henry Rodgers

August 19, 2025 at 2:51 PM

Dear Deb, such a wise and heartfelt nudge to slow down and listen deeper. I love how you speak with clarity and care just like a friend pulling us gently back from the edge of assumption. It’s got that Deb-style honesty I admire so much, firm, but always kind. Blessings, My Dear Deb, Daniel

Deb M

August 23, 2025 at 12:04 PM

Wow your gracious comment really spoke to me Daniel....l thankyou so much! Debx