An Invite isn't a Gesture to Change me

If I invite you into my home, please do not show up with the floor plan and Pinterest boards of your ideas to decorate it as you see fit. I like the plants I have hung up and the rainbow catchers hung in the window. They bring in growth and sunshine. And before you forget, make sure when you exit you lock the door behind you. Because I told you, this chair you brought with you, well it just does not fit. So maybe next time, you can sit in the chair I gave you that already was here waiting for someone who could sit and not just stand by and visit.