Agree To Disagree

In life disagreements have always been around,
so why the frown?
We all like what we like and that’s the bottom line.
I won’t see life as you do because I am me and
you are you.
However, what kind of filter do you use before
you look?
The filter that you use is a determining factor in
what you see.
I’m not perfect by a long shot, but I try to let 
optimism be my guide.
In a world of negativity it’s so easy to let op-
timism fall by the wayside.
The old saying is true “ treat others like you want 
to be treated.“
If someone said they like(or have a nonchalant 
demeanor )being mistreated or disrespected,
I don’t believe you.
Because at the core, we all are human beings 
and we have feelings.
If you don’t care now, you used to care, being 
hurt over and over can cause pain; pain overload 
turns into numbness.
The moment you allow yourself to feel again you 
will understand. 
Numbness can “walk around with a I don’t care”
attitude.
Once your numbness leaves, you will start to feel
again.
I know from personal experience, I wore my 
numbness(as a shield of defense) for years 
and nothing affected me.
Later on ,once I dealt with my pain and put 
aside my shield of defense I started to heal.
The world in itself is cruel, and fueled by so 
much hate.
But change starts with you and I, let’s agree 
to disagree and walk in to love’s wing.










Alexis Y.
10/27/2020

Copyright © | Year Posted 2020



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Date: 2/6/2023 2:35:00 PM
Hello! I love your poem and am choreographing a piece about agreeing to disagree and will present it next month infront of my school. I want to ask your permission for me to record myself reading your poem for my piece? When I present I will give you credit.
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Date: 10/28/2020 12:08:00 AM
When two disagree, it is best to let go. Going on with arguments is futile. ~~
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Date: 10/27/2020 5:24:00 PM
Great points, Alexis! Disagreeing agreeably is the key! Happiness and Light, Gershon
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Date: 10/27/2020 4:36:00 PM
Well said Alexis, a lot of truth in this write! People can disagree without being disagreeable!
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Date: 10/27/2020 3:57:00 PM
Your wonderful poem is full of positivity and light, Alexis. I especially like the last two lines. :=)
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Date: 10/27/2020 3:37:00 PM
So well said Alexis, there are always going to be differences of opinion and its fine ... we can't all agree to agree on subject especially something like the election!! Love the uplifting ending, into my faves for so many reasons:-) hugs jan xx
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Date: 10/27/2020 12:53:00 PM
The only thing one can certainly change is one's own attitude -for those lucky enough to gain "old age!! Aloha! Rico
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Date: 10/27/2020 1:15:00 PM
Hi Rico, Thanks, I didn’t notice the mistake. I agree, it’s up to change “ our” own attitude. I appreciate that you stopped by. Enjoy the rest of your day:-) Alexis
Date: 10/27/2020 10:34:00 AM
I love this, Alexis! You have a lot of great wisdom and insight in this poem that we could all gain from. Agreeing to disagree in a civil way is so important, as well as being true to oneself and facing the tough times of life in a healthy way. Good write! :)
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Date: 10/27/2020 9:51:00 AM
- Even a filter needs to be replaced from time to time ... that's my opinion ... you do not have to agree, Alexis :) - Great written :) - hugs // Anne-Lise :)
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Alexis Y.
Date: 10/27/2020 9:56:00 AM
Hi Anne-Lise, I agree, we don’t have to agree. That’s why I feel that agreeing to disagree is a good option. I appreciate that you stopped by my friend. Enjoy the rest of your day:-) Alexis
Date: 10/27/2020 8:57:00 AM
Some people have no filter nor do they see the other persons perspective, sadly they only see things their own way... Great poem Alexis..
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Date: 10/27/2020 10:00:00 AM
Hi Silent, I totally agree, that why they should get one(a filter). Thanks for stopping by my page. Have a wonderful day:-) Alexis
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