Abused Becomes The Abuser?

They say the abused becomes the abuser,
but I will never turn out to be you.

Your shadows may haunt me,
but never consume.

Every scar you inflicted,
every tear you caused
has given me the strength to never fear.

Your cruelty taught me what not to become,
but it also taught me empathy.

I carry your wounds,
but not your hate,
as I refuse to conform to your twisted fate.

They say the abused becomes the abuser,
but my mind sings a different tune.

With every step,
I prove society wrong.

In healing,
I grow immensely strong.

Your ghost may haunt me time to time,
but I will never let my past dictate my future,
as in shadows deep,
my spirt climbs,
to reach beyond the pain you caused.
Copyright © | Year Posted 2024

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Wolf Avatar
July 16, 2024 at 7:59 PM
You know, I hear it... but I find that there is a knee-jerk, instinctual reaction among those abused to do the same to the next generation. Crazy as it may seem. Much food for thought here, ashley!
Jones Avatar
July 15, 2024 at 3:11 PM
Bravo! As a survivor or abuse I always s hated the saying about us becoming abusers! It’s low key victim shading if you are not an abuser! This goes in my favs! Thank you for giving voice to this tender issue!
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