What If

Hey people why you listen to the people that don’t matter. You all get mad when the talk sh&t and when they put you down. Why do you think they continue to do it? It is because they get a reaction out of you and it drives them to get more. They feel like they have control over you and they are your masters and its pathetic. I’m not innocent no one is. Everyone does it either because they have had it done to them or because they feel like they have to be noticed. I’ve realized if you just laugh and completely ignore them you will have a better life and it will make life out to be better then what you thought it could ever be. I know I can’t say I’m fully able to ignore everyone but it’s a process I have made a lot of progress and I have learned I am a lot happier and feel way better when I just laugh or walk away. If people actually stopped and didn’t say anything and laughed about it more people would stop bullying. I know it’s very hard to believe me and it’s a process I think everyone needs to take. Who are they to judge you? You are the only one who needs to accept you for you. If you can’t accept what you are and what your personality is without being embarrassed about it you can’t live with anyone else. If you stop right now and think about all of the times you retaliated and said something back at the person that was bothering you did it get better or did it get worse and ay what if I don’t say anything maybe I won’t get angry and maybe they will leave me alone. If you can take the first step even though it is the hardest one there is to take you will have a better outlook on life and yourself and you will be happier then you could ever imagine. I don’t care who you are if you will only make the first step the next steps are a lot easier and you will learn to live life to the fullest and it will make you have more friends and you will have a better life style and you will have more fun instead of always being mad and sad and depressed. If everyone in the world would just take that one fateful step it would make all of the difference.